ya know what sucks. well for me its that this girl likes me and i don't like her because she creeps the fudge out of me. plus what makes it even worse is i was sitting with my friend that's a girl. not my gf but we have a lot in common. and the girl that likes me licks my lunch. it disgusting. that creep anybody out besides me. i thought only justin beiber fans smell and lick and kiss his posters and his stuff.
oh ya the girl that i have alot in common with i like but i never say it. but what sucks is she has bf.
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:15 AM)maroyasha Wrote: [ -> ]ya know what sucks. well for me its that this girl likes me and i don't like her because she creeps the fudge out of me. plus what makes it even worse is i was sitting with my friend that's a girl. not my gf but we have a lot in common. and the girl that likes me licks my lunch. it disgusting. that creep anybody out besides me. i thought only justin beiber fans smell and lick and kiss his posters and his stuff.
oh ya the girl that i have alot in common with i like but i never say it. but what sucks is she has bf.
That sounds horrible...
Maybe you should just ask out your friend that's a girl. If you guys have a lot in common, then just ask her out. She's your friend, so she's not gonna hate you for it. And if it doesn't work out, then oh well.
EDIT: Nevermind. I just saw your edit...
did you not get the part that she has boyfriend and he is also like a foot taller than me
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:13 AM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ] (Jun. 09, 2011 2:08 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]Err... not, I basically have an "off" button to emotion. Except rage. I'm not very good with that one.
For example, I still love my ex, but I need to force myself to stay away from her because I know she's crazy. Whenever I talk to her, I simply want to melt over her every word, but instead I have the ability to think without emotion if I need to.
So, you can look at the world with a more judgmental or moral perspective? Like looking at everything good or bad in the world, rather than what you think of it? Like all those morals they tell little kids, which they never seem to carry with them throughout life? You have the ability to see something and judge it according to morals and such without your emotions effecting it at all?
Right. That's why I saved myself until I was 21. I really had (still do) feelings for her so I felt she was the right one to be with. Unfortunately, I was still very naive. She has a good heart, which is why I thought she was right for me, but she wouldn't stop lying, even after I caught her in every lie.
i find something very wierd. i have never had a girlfriend but my closest friends are always girls. wierd right
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:19 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]Right. That's why I saved myself until I was 21. I really had (still do) feelings for her so I felt she was the right one to be with. Unfortunately, I was still very naive. She has a good heart, which is why I thought she was right for me, but she wouldn't stop lying, even after I caught her in every lie.
Deikailo, that's a bit too much info. (The beginning part.) Oh well. You'll find somebody else. Do you have any interests in guys? Or just women? You might have better luck with guys. You never know.
when you think about. if you like the opposite sex you might have less in common but if you like the same sex you will probably have more in common. just thought of that
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:25 AM)maroyasha Wrote: [ -> ]when you think about. if you like the opposite sex you might have less in common but if you like the same sex you will probably have more in common. just thought of that
Not necessarily. Everybody has different interests. It just depends on the person...
She was my first (real) relationship, Bey-Heart.
If I was interested in guys, I'd have found the perfect boyfriend by now.
Although I've been questioning myself lately, I've recently come to a conclusion that me + a man would never work on many different levels.
ya i guess your right. but if you like your same sex take boys for example. they both might like paintball. but take a boy and a girl boy- paintball girl-getting makeovers and stuff like that (that would probably be if you had a b!*%&y gf)
see what i mean
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:28 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]She was my first (real) relationship, Bey-Heart.
If I was interested in guys, I'd have found the perfect boyfriend by now.
Although I've been questioning myself lately, I've recently come to a conclusion that me + a man would never work on many different levels.
Ah. I see now.
Not really. It could work. It all just depends on the guy. Everybody is different. You just gotta find the right guy.
so ya i want a gf but i don't need one to live like some people do. with the girl i like but has a bf i probably won't ask her out because i probably won't see her again after this year. probably moving.
Deikailo everybody has their own particular ciriculam for people they like and yours just isn't guys so don't questino yourself on it.
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:30 AM)maroyasha Wrote: [ -> ]ya i guess your right. but if you like your same sex take boys for example. they both might like paintball. but take a boy and a girl boy- paintball girl-getting makeovers and stuff like that (that would probably be if you had a b!*%&y gf)
see what i mean
My brother and I go for manis & pedis whenever we have money and he is straight. You have obviously not had a good pedicure because I have treated many men to pedicures and they feel so relaxed when they go.
um ok i'm sort of disturbed now
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:33 AM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]Ah. I see now.
Not really. It could work. It all just depends on the guy. Everybody is different. You just gotta find the right guy.
It could work and I would be miserable.
as i said Deikailo everybody has their own particular ciriculam on who they like and yours is not guys
?im...confused...im dead on the inside...are u all happy know i am having a spaz attack. my frakin dog is homeless know
Any way this is oh so "PERFECTLY NORMAL" of how i cant procese any of this in my head
can anyone see my sig
okay what the h is wrong lets talk about it. (WOW i just went all mom for a second)
(Jun. 09, 2011 2:30 AM)maroyasha Wrote: [ -> ]ya i guess your right. but if you like your same sex take boys for example. they both might like paintball. but take a boy and a girl boy- paintball girl-getting makeovers and stuff like that (that would probably be if you had a b!*%&y gf)
see what i mean
Yeah, but opposites attract.
(Jun. 08, 2011 11:40 PM)momiji manju Wrote: [ -> ] caprii: You're 11. Calm down. I'm pretty sure puberty hasn't hit most of your social circle yet anyway. Rejection is not that big a deal if you think about it.
: I've had somewhat of the same problem, except on a far smaller scale. Although I have helped friends out in the same predicament(again on a smaller scale). Since you've already made it clear to her, I'd have someone else pretend to be your partner to pick up the phone and tell her to stop calling. If she continues I'd get some tough sounding friends to call her and tell her to stop calling you.
You and deikailo are way to helpful ^.^ -_- i liked her since 4th grade im pretty sure she knew i tried being nice to her today but she just put her hand up and ignored me ... Puberty *shivers* i dont wanna go through it >.> most of the guys in my class are negative (as in makes a joke outta the most normal thing ever) as in i love hot dogs but i also like hhamburgers so they make a joke that i like male parts -_- hehe i love being the more mature boy in my class >:3.Rejection kills me btw since it took me about 4 years to ask her out werid thing is she said it in front of the other girls i got laughed at -_- . (sorry for the long paragraph or something)
rejected? 11? you'll move on... plenty fish in the sea... (sorry for the cliche) but seriuosly, plenty more girls around...
(Jun. 09, 2011 1:59 AM)shotz Wrote: [ -> ]i have ADHD ...
So do I, and I'm one of the unlucky people who's stuck with it for their whole life PROTIP: It's a buttload easier if you make a concerted effort not to take offence to ADHD jokes/mentions. Same with being Ginger, in my case. Just try not to take things seriously, even if they are.
Caprii: Kids are cruel. At your age, a relationship isn't really the same as a more mature one, and frankly, it's not worth the hassle. I'm speaking from experience. Bbelieve me, you've got plenty of time to find someone better later, and you will.
Puberty is less scary than what everyone makes it out to be, btw.
This is getting awkward now.
Anyway, back to the whole "Not feeling anything after breakups" thing, you can lump me into that group. I can sense them coming, too. But I feel very little when it happens, which is kinda weird cos normally I'm pretty emotional.
It is only exacerbated by bad/rough breakups, I get really cold/uninterested which is generally pretty surprising to whoever is unlucky enough to be on the receiving end (only worse when they try to provoke something more out of me, only to get "K, Cool"). Usually, it's well deserved, and I could be worse, but then, that'd be being cruel, instead of dispassionate. 
Ah well.
Maybe it's my reasonable self esteem or the fact I don't take life as a whole too seriously, IDK.