I have a girlfriend called sahilla she is really attractive for a 12 year old she loves me soo much i can afford anything she wants She dont have to ask the price with me i just got her a neclace that cost lyke £50 but money doesn't bye happiness i will be mroe than happy to help any other people on there realshanship
(Aug. 19, 2011 8:28 PM)BlazingFire Wrote: [ -> ]I have a girlfriend called sahilla she is really attractive for a 12 year old she loves me soo much i can afford anything she wants She dont have to ask the price with me i just got her a neclace that cost lyke £50 but money doesn't bye happiness i will be mroe than happy to help any other people on there realshanship
Make sure she likes you and not your money...
Blazing Fire:...Are you for real? The pound is worth more than the dollar, so when I see fifty pounds, I think about sixty-five dollars, which may be a bit too much to spend on a girl if you're twelve. I don't think that is how you approach a relationship. I don't necessarily buy a lot of things, I don't have the money, but I think of things that seem out of the box, and you can build memories off of. It just works better. You can turn a trip to the beach into an unforgettable moment, if you do it right. You're right, money can't buy happiness, it also shouldn't be able to buy a relationship. Don't get me wrong, I feel terrible when I don't have the money to do something, but blowing through money isn't the way to do things.
EDIT: Gack, beaten by a LONG shot.
I learned my lesson on spending money on girls. I refuse to make that mistake twice.
I have no money to spend in the first place ninety percent of the time. It's kinda humiliating sometimes.
(Aug. 19, 2011 8:28 PM)BlazingFire Wrote: [ -> ]I have a girlfriend called sahilla she is really attractive for a 12 year old she loves me soo much i can afford anything she wants She dont have to ask the price with me i just got her a neclace that cost lyke £50 but money doesn't bye happiness i will be mroe than happy to help any other people on there realshanship
The beginning of your post made me remember the song just throw it in the bag/back/basket/ w.e i don't listen to songs like that xD......Wait shes 12
bad boy *swats with newspaper* Just because she grows a little faster then other girls does not mean she is attractive(i have witnessed this in my last few days of 5th grade.... IMA MISS DEH 5TH GRADE)....and you rlly shouldn't care about looks
the inside is what matters.
I NO BUt Still you ccant teach and ugly person with a good personality on how to be beutiful but u can teach a person with good looks to have agood personality
blazing fire:its the other way round bro
(Aug. 20, 2011 5:38 PM)BlazingFire Wrote: [ -> ]I NO BUt Still you ccant teach and ugly person with a good personality on how to be beutiful but u can teach a person with good looks to have agood personality
I'm not saying teach her anything I'm saying don't choose your girlfriend because of how she looks choose her for personality.....Just because you have money won't keep her there forever if she doesn't like you she will probably just find a more wealthy guy
..I'm not trying to be mean just trying to stop teen pregnacies :3 oh wait shes not a teen...
So you're saying, in the end, go for the pretty but mean one because you can change them? Nice plan
Love's on the inside, not out.
The past few things I've read in this topic are completely stupid. Love is something you feel. It's an emotion, not something you see.
Don't go after somebody who's hot, but has a bad personality. Trying to change them is pointless, because they probably won't change.
Although, there are hot girls with good personalities, like my girlfriend, for example. But people like that can be hard to find.
I no she looks good and got a good personality anyway so im happy
I don't think I said this yet, but I wanted to add in that Megan asked me out. XD Just thought I would let you guys know.
I got a girlfriend this year... at my camp and she was 10... And im 12... LOL
We broke up the next day...
(Aug. 20, 2011 8:16 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]The past few things I've read in this topic are completely stupid. Love is something you feel. It's an emotion, not something you see.
Don't go after somebody who's hot, but has a bad personality. Trying to change them is pointless, because they probably won't change.
Although, there are hot girls with good personalities, like my girlfriend, for example. But people like that can be hard to find.
What if u can change there Personality?
Why argue at all about the idea of changing someone versus moving on and not babying? Bey-Heart has a good idea of how love works apparently. Sorry if this comes off as sarcastic.
To change you have to be willing to change, not siphon the youth out of others expecting to be escorted into a better personality.
(Aug. 20, 2011 11:50 PM)MrTrippleAAA Wrote: [ -> ]I got a girlfriend this year... at my camp and she was 10... And im 12... LOL
We broke up the next day...
(Aug. 20, 2011 8:16 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]The past few things I've read in this topic are completely stupid. Love is something you feel. It's an emotion, not something you see.
Don't go after somebody who's hot, but has a bad personality. Trying to change them is pointless, because they probably won't change.
Although, there are hot girls with good personalities, like my girlfriend, for example. But people like that can be hard to find.
What if u can change there Personality?
Im not sure that counts as an relashion ship.There is no what if because its impossible to change someone from who they are
.So say if i was a girl and rlly pretty but i liked to stab things would u even dare to change me
(Aug. 20, 2011 5:38 PM)BlazingFire Wrote: [ -> ]I NO BUt Still you ccant teach and ugly person with a good personality on how to be beutiful but u can teach a person with good looks to have agood personality
Remember all of my sarcastic comments on posts being stupid here? Scratch all of them, this is the STUPIDEST, most biased, most ignorant post here. My girlfriend isn't seen by many people as the best looking, but I don't care. She's a nice person, and frankly, I wouldn't change nothin' about her. At all. Please stop with the stupidity, you are obviously not in love, simply infatuated with her looks. God damn.
On another note: Money. I feel terrible for again having to go on a "free date", and the most I spent was 10 bucks on some hotdogs and two shakes. I want to be someone she can rely on, but I can't get a job yet, still working on finding one. Damn, it's really starting to get discouraging. The day was nice, we walked around the lakeshore, but it was kinda awkward to know that I only had about eleven bucks in my pocket.
Changing someone only breeds contempt that you were unsatisfied with who they are.
BlazingFire, please don't give advice to anyone, you're evidently not mature enough.
Bey-Heart: congratulations man.
And, for the record, I don't really find kids sharing a bed, even if they're dating, all that odd. Honestly, maybe it's a cultural thing, but I don't see why you guys were so concerned.
Congrats Bey-Heart, hope that goes well for you.
As for BlazingFire, your methods appear to be quite shallow when it comes to finding a good girl to date. I mean little offense by saying that, but you cannot change everyone's personality, no matter how much you may wish to.
But if your gf really does make you happy and has a great personality, then good on you.
Inner beauty is the best kind of it. You don't always see parents that are exactly super model-like do you?
(Aug. 21, 2011 2:37 AM)th!nk Wrote: [ -> ]And, for the record, I don't really find kids sharing a bed, even if they're dating, all that odd. Honestly, maybe it's a cultural thing, but I don't see why you guys were so concerned.
I remember when I was like, 9 or 10, I was sleeping over the house of a family friend while all of our parents were away in Vegas. They hired one babysitter for all five kids (my brother, myself, and 3 others from a different family). The oldest one of us was Barry. He was maybe 11 or 12. I got frightened because I thought the house was too big so I slept in his bed. My parents yelled at me for doing that when they got back and I was like "wtf, I sleep next to Brendan (my younger brother) whenever, what's the big deal if he's a boy? So is Brendan!" and they really could not persist in comments because they realized that I was way too naive...
I think it's cute, though. Sleeping next to someone you love is one of the greatest pleasures in life, IMO, and it's much safer and cleaner than most of the things kids do today.
Yes, but sleeping even next to some one that you love out of wed lock is still risky, no matter if both of you have strong morals or not. Age is not always a definite variable in such matters. I've noticed recently that I've been trying to talk more sophisticated like, lol.
(Aug. 21, 2011 2:37 AM)th!nk Wrote: [ -> ]And, for the record, I don't really find kids sharing a bed, even if they're dating, all that odd. Honestly, maybe it's a cultural thing, but I don't see why you guys were so concerned.
So I've got your permission to sleep with the next girl I date? Thanks th!nk, you're awesome!
Typical Haru-...I mean Nano, completely ignoring my statement and going with the norm. 
Pm me if u wish
OK, so this girl I dated a little while back is still obsessed over me. During that year I dated her, she asked me out, broke up with me, asked me out again, and broke up with me. Then, over that summer, she asked me out multiple times, but each time I said no. It wasn't fair for her to treat me like that. When school rolled around, she asked out my friend and he said yes. They've been dating this entire year, but recently she told me that she still really likes me. Truth be told, I really like her, too. I feel I can act normal around her, and we are both really similar.
Soo...now what? If she brakes up with this guy (Which she might), what do I do? She's probably going to ask me out (Because she asked if that she asked me out if I would say yes, and I said I would), but I don't know if I can just take her back...
Ah! I hate this!
It would sound like she can't make up her mind herself, how good of a friend is this dude to you, his opinion matters, so you should probably check with him to see how he thinks their relationship has been going. But don't mention that she said that she still liked you.
Food for thought (sherlock holmes): Do you think that if you did get back together with her that it would potentially threaten your friendship with this dude?