...SHIZZ. Dude, she has my condolences. It's hard to know someone with cancer. It's kinda like it doesn't really apply to you until it actually applies to you. (I know that makes zero sense.)
(Sep. 22, 2011 5:52 PM)Hazel Wrote: [ -> ] (Sep. 22, 2011 12:07 PM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]it's life relashionships over hobby hazel
Actually, the two never have to really be opposed to one another. Most people worth really being with will give a little with your hobbies, and you will give a little with theirs. Learning to live in harmony with someone else - and their choices, interests, friends, etc. is a mandatory part of any serious relationship.
Anyone that waltzes into your life and starts demanding changes is not going to turn out well in the end. Like I said before - unless your hobbies are dangerous, debaucherous, destructive, etc. - there's no legitimate reason to have to give them up for the right person, because the right person will respect your interests.
If you're not comfortable with your hobbies, or think you need to be ashamed of them, then that is an issue to take up with yourself, too - if you use a relationship as a scapegoat for ditching a hobby, it will just cause unwanted tension toward the person that will eventually resurface in ugly ways.
That is very true but your hobbies tend to take a back seat in life for a while
(Sep. 23, 2011 6:31 AM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]That is very true but your hobbies tend to take a back seat in life for a while
That is preposterous. You are all in your early teens, if that. Relationships should be taking a back seat to your hobbies.
ok, so you suppose you should be sitting here typing away about your hobby while you girlfriend/boyfriend waits for you; people have feelings the internet doesnt
Giving less time to the person you are in a relashionship because of a hobby is proposterous even if you gf/bf respects you and your interests.
hades- Well, its known that an excess of just anything is bad. You must do certain things, but never overdo it. As Dei said, give hobbies more priority. Not that forget about your relations, though. Do everything is proportion. Give hobbies more time than relations. That's what Dei meant, I suppose. 
Most importantly, as Hazel said- You do not need to give up on things you like for someone else. Yes, I agree that certain sacrifices need to be made, but one mustn't do it 'on demand'. Its upon you to decide whether you wanna give up on something or not.
you have totally misinterpreted my message; my message was in fact that your hobby should be second priority but you should not give it up what is the point of being in a relationship where you do not respect one anothers interests
Ah, I am sorry if that's the case.
(Sep. 23, 2011 7:36 AM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]ok, so you suppose you should be sitting here typing away about your hobby while you girlfriend/boyfriend waits for you; people have feelings the internet doesnt
Giving less time to the person you are in a relashionship because of a hobby is proposterous even if you gf/bf respects you and your interests.
You don't meet or see each other at all times, every day. Have some time for yourself and other things. There isn't much attractive in a person who's sole interest is you.
Except maybe when you're kids, and that moment happens during a maths class and you know she's the one.
You are twelve. Girlfriends or boyfriends are for later anyway. You are barely a teen yet ...
True but twelve year olds have parents and spend time around others too
pluse I turn 13 in october
(Sep. 23, 2011 3:39 PM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]True but twelve year olds have parents and spend time around others too
This, I don't agree with.
(Sep. 23, 2011 3:39 PM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]True but twelve year olds have parents and spend time around others too
pluse I turn 13 in october
What does that have to do with anything? I agree you're too young to be dating.
(Sep. 23, 2011 3:39 PM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]True but twelve year olds have parents and spend time around others too
pluse I turn 13 in october
You're not more independent because of puberty. I just have to clear this up.
Also I have to lay down that using age as a justification can become a horrible, horrible habit especially for preteens.
Seriously..haha..12-15 years olds really not right for love..
that might not be love..that might be what we call... "like"
however..rhe culture of "young love" do happen in my place too..and i feel like annoying reading on Facebook or Blog about love thing by kids..
man..they are not even puberty yet.. (on ging puberty developement i guessed)
for kids..believe me..love is not always sweet...hah
i find this thread funny..XD
(Sep. 23, 2011 7:31 PM)Benjohadi Wrote: [ -> ]Seriously..haha..12-15 years olds really not right for love..
that might not be love..that might be what we call... "like"
however..rhe culture of "young love" do happen in my place too..and i feel like annoying reading on Facebook or Blog about love thing by kids..
man..they are not even puberty yet.. (on ging puberty developement i guessed)
for kids..believe me..love is not always sweet...hah
i find this thread funny..XD
i'm 12... trust me I know the difference between like and love, tbh its rather a big difference.
(Sep. 23, 2011 7:34 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ] (Sep. 23, 2011 7:31 PM)Benjohadi Wrote: [ -> ]Seriously..haha..12-15 years olds really not right for love..
that might not be love..that might be what we call... "like"
however..rhe culture of "young love" do happen in my place too..and i feel like annoying reading on Facebook or Blog about love thing by kids..
man..they are not even puberty yet.. (on ging puberty developement i guessed)
for kids..believe me..love is not always sweet...hah
i find this thread funny..XD
i'm 12... trust me I know the difference between like and love, tbh its rather a big difference.
not really..even sometime..adults think they know what is love..but they dont..ahah..
in my country..12 years old is just to kiddy for love..i dont know about the rest of the world..
yeah, but tbh most of the people where I live are way more mature than normal 12 year olds, my moms friends and that say i should be a politician when i'm older. and I know that liking someone is just where you think someones attractive, but love is different.
(Sep. 23, 2011 7:44 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ]yeah, but tbh most of the people where I live are way more mature than normal 12 year olds, my moms friends and that say i should be a politician when i'm older. and I know that liking someone is just where you think someones attractive, but love is different.
No, you really don't know the difference. Very, very few people in this thread do - and that's normal. There is nothing in the water in your area that makes people grow more intelligent or more emotionally mature faster. You could be the most emotionally advanced twelve year old alive and still not fathom the actual concept of a real relationship, or its consequences on your life, the life of your partner, and your emotional status.
You're not some love savant, you're just level-headed enough not to get too invested yet. You will, someday, look back on every relationship you had in these formative years and consider them in a much different light.
Don't get ahead of yourself. Letting yourself keep thinking you're "more mature than normal 12 year olds" is a cocky way to get the reality train slammed into your forehead.
...and, I'm really not sure what your mom's friends saying you should be a politician is supposed to contribute to your statement. That's like saying "BUT MY MOM SAYS I'M HANDSOME" when someone calls you unattractive.
(Sep. 23, 2011 3:44 AM)Sparta Wrote: [ -> ]I'm so upset. Lauren...has cancer. She hasn't told me muh about it other than that, but it's reay sad...
That really sucks. That must have been brave of her to tell you that, though. Good luck, you'll need it.
I will put in my prayer, sorry in advanced if you're not the spiritual type.
(Sep. 23, 2011 7:44 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ]yeah, but tbh most of the people where I live are way more mature than normal 12 year olds, my moms friends and that say i should be a politician when i'm older. and I know that liking someone is just where you think someones attractive, but love is different.
(Sep. 23, 2011 7:34 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ]i'm 12... trust me I know the difference between like and love, tbh its rather a big difference.
I am 21 and I still struggle with that difference. Most everyone in my youth has told me I'm destined to be some sort of CEO or President of something. The two are irrelevant. If you knew even an iota about love, you would know that attraction to someone makes people very, very immature and irrational at times due to released chemicals in the brain called idk what because I'm not a doctor.
Advice: stop acting like you know everything about love because the experienced are just laughing at you on the inside.
(Sep. 23, 2011 8:47 PM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ] (Sep. 23, 2011 7:44 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ]yeah, but tbh most of the people where I live are way more mature than normal 12 year olds, my moms friends and that say i should be a politician when i'm older. and I know that liking someone is just where you think someones attractive, but love is different.
(Sep. 23, 2011 7:34 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ]i'm 12... trust me I know the difference between like and love, tbh its rather a big difference.
I am 21 and I still struggle with that difference. Most everyone in my youth has told me I'm destined to be some sort of CEO or President of something. The two are irrelevant. If you knew even an iota about love, you would know that attraction to someone makes people very, very immature and irrational at times due to released chemicals in the brain called idk what because I'm not a doctor.
Advice: stop acting like you know everything about love because the experienced are just laughing at you on the inside.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hormone !
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EDIT:I wasn't in any way trying to be sarcastic or rude. Information is key.
IM SO MAD AT MY MOM RIGHT NOW! SHe now says I cant go to the football game tonight! I just wanted to see Breanna cheerleading! And she's telling me to make up a lie to her. Im like wdf? Why would I want to lie to the girl I most love in the whole wide world! I cant go because of the weather! BUT IT LOOOKS FINE NOW RIGHT!? She's out to dinner with her boyfriend now.... Im so carpin mad right now. Im afraid Im gonna lose Bre's friendship and trust cos the last 3 times I told her I'd go as in promising but I couldnt.! And this is like the 4th time! SOOOOOOOOOOO MAAAADDD now.
EDIT: Now I know how Goku feels when Frieza killed Krillian ._.
(Sep. 23, 2011 11:01 PM)® Wrote: [ -> ]IM SO MAD AT MY MOM RIGHT NOW! SHe now says I cant go to the football game tonight! I just wanted to see Breanna cheerleading! And she's telling me to make up a lie to her. Im like wdf? Why would I want to lie to the girl I most love in the whole wide world! I cant go because of the weather! BUT IT LOOOKS FINE NOW RIGHT!? She's out to dinner with her boyfriend now.... Im so carpin mad right now. Im afraid Im gonna lose Bre's friendship and trust cos the last 3 times I told her I'd go as in promising but I couldnt.! And this is like the 4th time! SOOOOOOOOOOO MAAAADDD now.
EDIT: Now I know how Goku feels when Frieza killed Krillian ._.
bro that was a WHOLE diffrent case when frieza killed krillian goku fealt un imaginable pain this cant really be compared to tat fealin
and im sure shell understand just tell her that ur mom wont let u she cant get mad if its not ur fault u need to explain it to her
