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My Girlfriend is the best. Sylvia07!! <3

The bad thing is where both childhood friends so if i ask her out she'll either probably hate me or accept it
(Sep. 21, 2011  6:34 AM)paulie Wrote: [ -> ]My Girlfriend is the best. Sylvia07!! <3
I was wondering how an older female blader ended up playing. lol!
just a question: what do you do with a girlfriend?.. Unhappy Imma have my first soon, and i dont want it to be awkward or anything..
(Sep. 22, 2011  1:28 AM)PHANTOMxBLADER Wrote: [ -> ]just a question: what do you do with a girlfriend?.. Unhappy Imma have my first soon, and i dont want it to be awkward or anything..
You make it sound as if she's being purchased from a store...
Think he meant where to take her and stuff, Dei.

Uhmm...I would start by talking to her and stuff (No duh), and the first place you should go is over her house. NOT YOURS, hers. This way the parents get to meet you and can trust you taking her anywhere after that.
(Sep. 22, 2011  1:30 AM)Sparta Wrote: [ -> ]Think he meant where to take her and stuff, Dei.
Then shouldn't he say that? Uncertain He made his relationship sound very unnatural.

Just go to a restaurant with your parents. Have your parents and her parents sit at one table and you and your girl sit at another. That's what I did on my first date.
(Sep. 22, 2011  1:47 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]
(Sep. 22, 2011  1:30 AM)Sparta Wrote: [ -> ]Think he meant where to take her and stuff, Dei.
Then shouldn't he say that? Uncertain He made his relationship sound very unnatural.

Just go to a restaurant with your parents. Have your parents and her parents sit at one table and you and your girl sit at another. That's what I did on my first date.

Hehe, i guess i might as well been more clear.
Finally asked her to be my homecoming date. If this relationship gets better and I want to extend it, I'll probably leave this hobby just for her.
(Sep. 22, 2011  10:46 AM)® Wrote: [ -> ]Finally asked her to be my homecoming date. If this relationship gets better and I want to extend it, I'll probably leave this hobby just for her.

U put relationships over beyblades?! That is wrong.
Anyway me and my GF hav been goin out for a month today ( YAY ) and tomoz is the last day of skool for my state and im goin to see if i can like make a move on her. U know kiss her or somthin. But she is a tough girl and im scared if i make a move on her, she'll dump me/ punch my face in....
(Sep. 22, 2011  10:46 AM)® Wrote: [ -> ]Finally asked her to be my homecoming date. If this relationship gets better and I want to extend it, I'll probably leave this hobby just for her.

There is no legitimate reason to put a hold to a hobby for a romantic interest, unless your hobby is dating numerous people or marauding or something similar.
it's life relashionships over hobby hazel
(Sep. 17, 2011  2:43 PM)Twilight4D Wrote: [ -> ]Ok soo I got over the boy I've liked for a year now. (Just realizing he is really mean sometimes to people). My friend tried to tell me, but I didn't listen. But anyways there is a new kid in my school. Sometimes I think he is flirting with me, but I'm not quite sure. I mean he comes over while I'm selling popsicles for our New York trip and ask how I'm doing. But in P.E. class we really do not talk. I'm so confused Uncertain
Also we have an 8th grade dance at the end of the year at a Country Club... and I might want to ask someone there <---- any advice for asking?
Yea..never had my dilemma answered XD

(Sep. 22, 2011  12:07 PM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]it's life relashionships over hobby hazel

Actually, the two never have to really be opposed to one another. Most people worth really being with will give a little with your hobbies, and you will give a little with theirs. Learning to live in harmony with someone else - and their choices, interests, friends, etc. is a mandatory part of any serious relationship.

Anyone that waltzes into your life and starts demanding changes is not going to turn out well in the end. Like I said before - unless your hobbies are dangerous, debaucherous, destructive, etc. - there's no legitimate reason to have to give them up for the right person, because the right person will respect your interests.

If you're not comfortable with your hobbies, or think you need to be ashamed of them, then that is an issue to take up with yourself, too - if you use a relationship as a scapegoat for ditching a hobby, it will just cause unwanted tension toward the person that will eventually resurface in ugly ways.
(Sep. 22, 2011  12:07 PM)hammer hades Wrote: [ -> ]it's life relashionships over hobby hazel
If someone can't love you for your interests or at the very least appreciate you for your differences, then they never cared about you from the start. When my ex told me to quit Beyblade, I told her she can quit me if she really felt that way.
I agree, if they love you for someone else, its not real. my girlfriend likes me for all my good qualities, and the bad ones, if someone doesn't respect what you like, then forget the relationship, it's not real if they can't bear it to be with you.
(Sep. 22, 2011  5:52 PM)Hazel Wrote: [ -> ]Actually, the two never have to really be opposed to one another. Most people worth really being with will give a little with your hobbies, and you will give a little with theirs. Learning to live in harmony with someone else - and their choices, interests, friends, etc. is a mandatory part of any serious relationship.

Anyone that waltzes into your life and starts demanding changes is not going to turn out well in the end. Like I said before - unless your hobbies are dangerous, debaucherous, destructive, etc. - there's no legitimate reason to have to give them up for the right person, because the right person will respect your interests.

If you're not comfortable with your hobbies, or think you need to be ashamed of them, then that is an issue to take up with yourself, too - if you use a relationship as a scapegoat for ditching a hobby, it will just cause unwanted tension toward the person that will eventually resurface in ugly ways.
Does this mean that I might have to give up my new hobby of being a cannibal if the girl I like finds out? (If she were to find out after we were to get hooked up, that is) XD (I'm joking, btw.)

Things seems to be going pretty good for me right now. Joyful_2 I'm over my breakup, and I actually like a few other girls right now. Meanwhile, Nano is still looking. Tongue_out

(Sep. 22, 2011  8:31 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]Does this mean that I might have to give up my new hobby of being a cannibal if the girl I like finds out? (If she were to find out after we were to get hooked up, that is) XD
That's seriously not amusing. Cannibalism isn't a hobby - that's an illness.
an illness? I thought it was just a stage of madness, you know, the one where you really need help if you eat other people.

anyway i'm doing fine, but now i'm faced with the problem of I have to face my GF in a game of football in a tournament, and she really wants to win, but so do I, i'm guessing that I shouldn't go easy on her, because thats what I know from experience, but what would you guys do?
(Sep. 22, 2011  8:37 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ]anyway i'm doing fine, but now i'm faced with the problem of I have to face my GF in a game of football in a tournament, and she really wants to win, but so do I, i'm guessing that I shouldn't go easy on her, because thats what I know from experience, but what would you guys do?
Do whatever you feel is right. If you feel like letting her win, let her win. If you wanna win, win. She probably wouldn't break up with you over something that stupid. Tongue_out

And I was only joking D:

(Sep. 22, 2011  8:47 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]
(Sep. 22, 2011  8:37 PM)Nwolf Wrote: [ -> ]anyway i'm doing fine, but now i'm faced with the problem of I have to face my GF in a game of football in a tournament, and she really wants to win, but so do I, i'm guessing that I shouldn't go easy on her, because thats what I know from experience, but what would you guys do?
Do whatever you feel is right. If you feel like letting her win, let her win. If you wanna win, win. She probably wouldn't break up with you over something that stupid. Tongue_out

And I was only joking D:
Along with what Bey-Heart said about the winning situation, it really doesn't matter who wins along as both of you had fun.
(Sep. 22, 2011  8:31 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]Meanwhile, Nano is still looking. Tongue_out

Don't think anyone needed to know that -.-"
I'm moving in with my partner of almost a year in January-ish. I really cannot wait. We're going to Ft. Lauderdale for Thanksgiving in November, followed by Christmas at his parents' house, whom I have not yet met. Very exciting!
(Sep. 23, 2011  1:50 AM)Roan Wrote: [ -> ]I'm moving in with my partner of almost a year in January-ish. I really cannot wait. We're going to Ft. Lauderdale for Thanksgiving in November, followed by Christmas at his parents' house, whom I have not yet met. Very exciting!
That's great to hear! You two deserve to be happy together. Smile
I'm so upset. Lauren...has cancer. She hasn't told me muh about it other than that, but it's reay sad...