(Aug. 21, 2011 3:42 AM)Jacksonian Wrote: [ -> ]It would sound like she can't make up her mind herself, how good of a friend is this dude to you, his opinion matters, so you should probably check with him to see how he thinks their relationship has been going. But don't mention that she said that she still liked you.
Food for thought (sherlock holmes): Do you think that if you did get back together with her that it would potentially threaten your friendship with this dude?
1. He's just a friend. We don't really hang out, but we've known each other for quite a while.
2. Hopefully not. I wouldn't think so, but I definitely should check and ask. Communication is important in any relationship.
Thanks for the advice. Problem is, I still don't know if I can just take her back. Besides, my parents would probably not be OK with it, seeing as how they thought she treated me like total carp.
Well I personally probably wouldn't date until college anyways, but I can't give you any advice that may lead to a rash decision so I can't tell you exactly what to do if i was in your situation.
(Aug. 21, 2011 3:53 AM)Jacksonian Wrote: [ -> ]Well I personally probably wouldn't date until college anyways, but I can't give you any advice that may lead to a rash decision.
Alright, that makes sense. Thanks, anyways.
and Th!nk - Thanks guys. 
I'm hoping it goes well. We have a lot in common, and we both really like each other, so this will probably go pretty well for the both of us. Especially since, unlike some guys, I actually know how to treat a lady. 
Me and Megan are planning for me to go to her house one day soon, and we're gonna blow off a few hours watching anime. XD Sounds like a good day to me. We were supposed to do this today, but I wasn't able to. Perhaps in a week or two.
Help me. Now.
Okay, so, in life, I'm a happy person. I do NOT look it, though. I was sitting around, and some girl comes up to me and asks if I am depressed. And then, before I know it, she loves me.
WHY??? JUST WHY??? Is love so ridiculous that it can only be found when u aren't looking for it? I wish I could say: Come back one year ago, and I'll date u. But, I'm not that mean. I can only hold on to things I can't wait to lose, and I lose everything that matters. Is there like, a secret to how to love after u have made a pact w/ urself never to love again? Because, I realized yesterday a VERY scary thing: I can't love, not because I don't want to, but because I'm unable to...
Well, I can honestly tell you now that love is the connection of a healthy and well thought out relationship between a man and a woman and-... well the rest comes later.
If you could explain your conversation I maybe able to advise you a bit better, you can pm me if it bothers you. Or if you really don't wan to, then just let me know.
(Aug. 21, 2011 4:22 AM)Jacksonian Wrote: [ -> ]Well, I can honestly tell you now that love is the connection of a healthy and well thought out relationship between two people and-... well the rest comes later.
Fixed
(Aug. 21, 2011 4:05 AM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]Especially since, unlike some guys, I actually know how to treat a lady.
What ya talkin' about, Willis?
Something tells me you're implying that I don't know how to treat a lady -.-
Have you been talking to my ex lately? Sounds like it! XD
Lol, is there a reason for us to consider you not being able to treat a woman? 0.o jk
Hey ladies im single. hahaha spam excuse me
(Aug. 21, 2011 3:26 AM)Nano Wrote: [ -> ] (Aug. 21, 2011 2:37 AM)th!nk Wrote: [ -> ]And, for the record, I don't really find kids sharing a bed, even if they're dating, all that odd. Honestly, maybe it's a cultural thing, but I don't see why you guys were so concerned.
So I've got your permission to sleep with the next girl I date? Thanks th!nk, you're awesome! 
Sleep in the same bed as =/= sleep with in that sense.
: Maybe I'm just a manwhore but I think calling that a "risk" is a bit, er, uptight. Still, again, what Dei said covers it. And in relation to your later post, there is a difference between belief and being completely and utterly incorrect, and you should be mindful of that.
You've basically stated that you believe love is only between people of different genders, which is completely incorrect... Saying you don't mean to discriminate while doing just that only makes it more ridiculous.
-Heart: That is definitely not the correct definition of love at all. Some may argue marriage (and be totally wrong), but to say that love is limited to opposite-sex couplings is quite simply disgusting and offensive.
@Th!nk Wow, dude. You're pretty harsh
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My friend just scheduled a tee time for this friday. It's going to be me, him, the girl he like/she likes him, me, and the girl I like/the one that likes my friend.
I wrote out this whole confusing circle (Of love) in an earlier post. If you're too lazy:
I like (Let's just call them girls #1 and 2, so it's easier to understand) the 1st girl, she likes my friend, who likes the 2nd girl. The 2nd girl is friends with the 1st girl, so they both kinda help each other out. It's a triangle with my friend, and I'm kinda on the outside...
@ Th!nk, I do not wish to further a discussion on that topic any farther but we all have our own moral and religious beliefs, just by stating that love can be between two "people" and not between a male and female may also be taken as discrimination or being offensive to others. This is what our world has come to.
@ Sparta, that will be interesting no? Try to enjoy your tea time anyways.
(Aug. 21, 2011 4:22 PM)Jacksonian Wrote: [ -> ]@ Th!nk, I do not wish to further a discussion on that topic any farther but we all have our own moral and religious beliefs, just by stating that love can be between two "people" and not between a male and female may also be taken as discrimination or being offensive to others. This is what our world has come to.
@ Sparta, that will be interesting no? Try to enjoy your tea time anyways.
Haha, it's a te
e time
. But thanks, I'll try. Problem is the girl I like will be hitting on my friend. Damn, that's annoying!
(Aug. 21, 2011 4:46 AM)Nano Wrote: [ -> ] (Aug. 21, 2011 4:05 AM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]Especially since, unlike some guys, I actually know how to treat a lady.
What ya talkin' about, Willis?
Something tells me you're implying that I don't know how to treat a lady -.-
Have you been talking to my ex lately? Sounds like it! XD
Lol. I wasn't talking about you. I was talking about how a lot of guys treat girls nowadays. There is something a lot of guys need to learn: A women, and no part of a women is ever your property. They are a living breathing person. You need to treat them nice. Nicer than you would treat yourself.
But after you telling me about what you were gonna do to her swimsuit, you don't know how to treat a lady. XD
...Damn, it's funny how a deep subject can turn into a joke with you two. It's hilarious. Wait...what was he going to do with the swimsuit?
On to what you said earlier... Frankly, that's what people believe nowadays. That women are property, and that it is a commodity that needs to be protected.
(Aug. 21, 2011 7:04 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]...Damn, it's funny how a deep subject can turn into a joke with you two. It's hilarious. Wait...what was he going to do with the swimsuit?
On to what you said earlier... Frankly, that's what people believe nowadays. That women are property, and that it is a commodity that needs to be protected.
Lol. Me and Nano are just like that. Everything turns into a joke between us. XD
If you really wanna know what he was gonna do, PM me. It's hilarious. XD
Men who believe that way are stupid.
Not only do they think that those girls are their property, but they also think that what they want, goes. It's disgusting. People like that need to learn some self control, and how to treat a lady. Once again, treat your girlfriend better than you would treat yourself.
(Aug. 21, 2011 7:10 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ] (Aug. 21, 2011 7:04 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]...Damn, it's funny how a deep subject can turn into a joke with you two. It's hilarious. Wait...what was he going to do with the swimsuit?
On to what you said earlier... Frankly, that's what people believe nowadays. That women are property, and that it is a commodity that needs to be protected.
Lol. Me and Nano are just like that. Everything turns into a joke between us. XD
If you really wanna know what he was gonna do, PM me. It's hilarious. XD
Men who believe that way are stupid. Not only do they think that those girls are their property, but they also think that what they want, goes. It's disgusting. People like that need to learn some self control, and how to treat a lady. Once again, treat your girlfriend better than you would treat yourself.
truer words have never been sead
(Aug. 21, 2011 2:02 AM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ] (Aug. 20, 2011 5:38 PM)BlazingFire Wrote: [ -> ]I NO BUt Still you ccant teach and ugly person with a good personality on how to be beutiful but u can teach a person with good looks to have agood personality
Remember all of my sarcastic comments on posts being stupid here? Scratch all of them, this is the STUPIDEST, most biased, most ignorant post here. My girlfriend isn't seen by many people as the best looking, but I don't care. She's a nice person, and frankly, I wouldn't change nothin' about her. At all. Please stop with the stupidity, you are obviously not in love, simply infatuated with her looks. God damn.
On another note: Money. I feel terrible for again having to go on a "free date", and the most I spent was 10 bucks on some hotdogs and two shakes. I want to be someone she can rely on, but I can't get a job yet, still working on finding one. Damn, it's really starting to get discouraging. The day was nice, we walked around the lakeshore, but it was kinda awkward to know that I only had about eleven bucks in my pocket.
Oh finally someone who understands what i was trying to say to him -.-(not being sarcastic)
(Aug. 21, 2011 9:45 PM)tanzam2 Wrote: [ -> ] (Aug. 21, 2011 7:10 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ] (Aug. 21, 2011 7:04 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]...Damn, it's funny how a deep subject can turn into a joke with you two. It's hilarious. Wait...what was he going to do with the swimsuit?
On to what you said earlier... Frankly, that's what people believe nowadays. That women are property, and that it is a commodity that needs to be protected.
Lol. Me and Nano are just like that. Everything turns into a joke between us. XD
If you really wanna know what he was gonna do, PM me. It's hilarious. XD
Men who believe that way are stupid. Not only do they think that those girls are their property, but they also think that what they want, goes. It's disgusting. People like that need to learn some self control, and how to treat a lady. Once again, treat your girlfriend better than you would treat yourself.
truer words have never been sead
2+2 is four. There, truer words have been said, hah. Being serious, yeah, Bey-Heart hit it right on the head.
(Aug. 21, 2011 7:10 PM)Bey-Heart Wrote: [ -> ]Men who believe that way are stupid. Not only do they think that those girls are their property, but they also think that what they want, goes. It's disgusting. People like that need to learn some self control, and how to treat a lady. Once again, treat your girlfriend better than you would treat yourself.
I could not agree more. I have always held these morals, and will continue to do so. It's just common sense, people. You think girls like when you act like a total jerk?
Some do, apparently. Not ones with common sense, though.
(Aug. 22, 2011 12:49 AM)NoodooSoup Wrote: [ -> ]Some do, apparently. Not ones with common sense, though.
Apparently nobody has common sense these days. I blame stupid shows like Jersey Shore.
There is a reason why America's founding fathers did not want input from 'The people'. They believed that the people were stupid. I completely agree with this. That is, when is comes to the common man. Or, at least most of the people I see in school.
(Aug. 21, 2011 4:22 PM)Jacksonian Wrote: [ -> ]@ Th!nk, I do not wish to further a discussion on that topic any farther but we all have our own moral and religious beliefs, just by stating that love can be between two "people" and not between a male and female may also be taken as discrimination or being offensive to others. This is what our world has come to.
@ Sparta, that will be interesting no? Try to enjoy your tea time anyways.
It's not discriminating if it's a fact, and I am merely stating a fact, whereas you are saying there is no "LOVE" between two people of the same gender. I'm also not saying it cannot be between two people of different genders, so there's no discrimination there either.
If we were discussing marriage it would be opinion based, but we are not.
Religion may have some standing were we discussing marriage, but we are not.
Unless the theoretical two people of the same gender who love each other are religious, there is no involvement of religion in this matter, and either way, there's certainly no involvement of YOUR religious beliefs, other than me calling you on them because you've decided to hide behind it.
If your religion states that two people of the same gender cannot love each other, it's the same as stating black and white people aren't equal in my eyes, hence my somewhat spiky response. I simply find it utterly disgusting that in this day and age someone can say that two people of the same gender cannot FEEL LOVE for one another. You're telling people WHAT THEY CAN AND CANNOT FEEL, not what they can think or do, BUT WHAT THEY CAN FEEL, and that's completely unacceptable.
: As I said, I find it disgusting that someone believes that, and that I don't think stating it is an opinion is enough for it to be "okay".
Heck, it could be my opinion that 2+2=5, and it wouldn't make it true.
tl;dr we're talking about love not marriage, so religion has absolutely nothing to do with it.
(Aug. 21, 2011 7:04 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]...Damn, it's funny how a deep subject can turn into a joke with you two. It's hilarious. Wait...what was he going to do with the swimsuit?
On to what you said earlier... Frankly, that's what people believe nowadays. That women are property, and that it is a commodity that needs to be protected.
I kinda do that sometimes. We subject jump a lot.
In a way, you still need to protect your loved one
(Aug. 21, 2011 9:45 PM)tanzam2 Wrote: [ -> ]truer words have never been sead
Pudding is good.
Now try saying that again.
(Aug. 22, 2011 12:24 AM)Sparta Wrote: [ -> ]You think girls like when you act like a total jerk?
Jocks? I've seen jerks at school with girlfriends. Some of them are jocks