Yeah, deikailo you know my true age. Anybody heard of the Ultimate Life Summit? I'm too young to do that. I'M NOT SUPPOSED TO BE DATING YET!!
Sounds like a scam to me.
$2500 dollars for something I can do by myself?
GREAT DEAL.
Ugh, this post is kinda off topic.
Should I whine about a past relationship that I screwed up? I'd been single for ages (well, I was 18 and it would've been my second relationship). ANyway, long story short I misinterpreted something, and reacted badly, and kinda ruined any chance at anything, which is a shame. Ended up dating one of her friends though.
I am far too paranoid for my own good.
OMG This thread. But hey, it doesnt make WBO members seem like no-lifers no offence. heheh. . . .
According to the E/N Bull**** community on SomethingAwful, being paranoid is an instant timeout for the relationship if it is ever displayed.
But let's forget about them. Hopefully you don't hit yourself for that too much, Th!nk....
(Jul. 27, 2011 11:02 PM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]When I was a teenager, I said no dating until 9th grade and nothing past kissing until I was out of high school. It helped a lot. You'll feel a little isolated, yes, but people will have so much more respect for you as you get older for that decision.
Yup that's sounds good. Nothing past kissing until i'm married for me haha.
I'll just wait a year or two before I start dating.
My brother first started dating at 14, 3 years ago. in about 3 or 4 years I'll date.
(Jul. 28, 2011 12:18 AM)storm dranzer Wrote: [ -> ]My brother first started dating at 14, 3 years ago. in about 3 or 4 years I'll date.
wow, a six to seven year gap. about the time span i waited before my sis was born. any ways, i cant belive you will wait 6 to 7 years to date after your brother. that must be wierd
Whats so strange about having consistent personal standards for a dating period? Sorry but it sounds like you're calling "being patient" strange.
I think this thread is a neat topic,
Reasoning:
we older kids ( aha im 20, yeah ill stick with kid for now), could show the younger ones that you shouldn't be scared to go with your heart. we have a young group of people on here that is possibly the leading group.
all the young fresh generation.
I like that actually, new minds.
I digress.
I have a girlfriend of a year and a half. we met randomly and in the best way.
*back story for those interested* ----( i finished highschool 2 years ago. being kicked out of my house and working a lot. I pretty closed off to the out side world of dating and new friendships. i was curious about how i was going to date someone if i couldnt meet girls. outside of school its not really easy to meet new people. my friend wanted me to join a band with him and we needed a singer. we found a girl for the job and started to hang out with her to get to know her. she thought her friend and i would be cute together and set us up on a blind date, we both didnt think anything of it really but over time we found eachother really interesting and fun and i took her on a few dates and we started going steady... wow im old ahha)---- *skip this if you wanna*
I think she is amazing, very similar to me. the cool part is im 20 and have loved this hobby/game for many years since it came out. and she thinks its a neat hobby and respects it. she sees it for what its worth.
When you love someone you accept them for who they are and the parts of there lives that are important.
Dont be afraid to try for someone. but be ready for a possible no. it doesnt work everytime. but if you dont try
you cant know for sure what might happen ( ive learned the hard way) grab your guts and go in guns a blazing. get to know the other person and then drop a few hints or share some of your feelings with them.
it could work out for he better
(Jul. 27, 2011 11:02 PM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]When I was a teenager, I said no dating until 9th grade and nothing past kissing until I was out of high school. It helped a lot. You'll feel a little isolated, yes, but people will have so much more respect for you as you get older for that decision.
Yeah that's what i plan to do , although all my mates are doing things differently if you get what i mean
(Jul. 27, 2011 11:02 PM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]When I was a teenager, I said no dating until 9th grade and nothing past kissing until I was out of high school. It helped a lot. You'll feel a little isolated, yes, but people will have so much more respect for you as you get older for that decision.
Well yeah! I am doing the same, I am in 9th grade, you see. Yes, you feel a bit isolated for sure. At times I feel discouraged and always think- Do I want more respect, or do I want love?
Such thoughts really don't allow you to take a decision perfectly. Sometimes, it feels like what you did was wrong. Having a girlfriend at an early age is just too much. Just 0.1% of people are able to handle it.
Still, I am in 9th grade now! But, I think I'll wait for longer. I am surrounded by friends(yes, there are girls too) so lets see....
(Jul. 27, 2011 11:14 PM)th!nk Wrote: [ -> ]I am far too paranoid for my own good.
I have never been in a relationship where I wasn't lied to, hit or cheated on. Which is probly why I am so negative about relationships, haha I need a better taste in women perhaps.
Ive never been in a relationship at all so I think Deikailo's plan is working so far...right?
I have a thing for shy girls, I don't know why I like them, but whenever I date them, I just can't handle them because of their shyness. Maybe it's just because I feel sorry for them.
Erm, I might be taking that post as vague- but how many scenarios are there, where you can ever date someone because you feel sorry for them, and that is an okay reason?
Just asking, some of my friends have been wondering the same thing.
I already have a plan: Start dating at 13 or 14, kiss at around 14, and nothing past that till 17 or 18
Date at 14/15. 13 is too young in my opinion. You will probably still be in that "Doing it just to do it" frame of mind, and it's just not fair to the other parties involved.
(Jul. 29, 2011 3:27 AM)Codeine Extorts Wrote: [ -> ]Erm, I might be taking that post as vague- but how many scenarios are there, where you can ever date someone because you feel sorry for them, and that is an okay reason?
Just asking, some of my friends have been wondering the same thing.
Never. You should only date someone if you mutually care for each other.
(Jul. 29, 2011 2:37 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]Date at 14/15. 13 is too young in my opinion. You will probably still be in that "Doing it just to do it" frame of mind, and it's just not fair to the other parties involved.
Dude, 2 people in my grade are SERIOUSLY dating. Thy are into each other
We know each other from years.. around when I started Beyblading (2000), officially a Blader since 2007 (yeah, far too late).
Yeah, she's my Girl friend.
This thread is still alive for some reasons. I don't feel like contributing anything else, to this thread, right now.
(Jul. 29, 2011 2:45 PM)storm dranzer Wrote: [ -> ]Dude, 2 people in my grade are SERIOUSLY dating. Thy are into each other
Doesn't mean it'll be like that for you.
I have never had a gf before. The problem is when I get close to them or TRY to talk to her I eather wimp out(Im super shy) or h-h-have a t-t-terrible stuter. Any sug?
I've had a girlfriend before, for about a year, then she dumped me. (When I was 5-6 I must've been cute.) Now I have no interest in her, but there's someone else that I want to go out with, here's where it get's weird and complicated here's lots of complicated things which make it difficult, I think she's going out with someone else at the moment. It's the 6 week holidays and I live no-where near her. For some reason, when I try to speak to her, I don't actually look at her, AT ALL, I just look away and speak, it's weird. Eventually I'll have it sorted out, I'm not asking for suggestions to help but, I'm sharing my messed up, complicated love-life.
Haha, that used to happen to me. It's awkward, isn't it? It's even worse when someone notices your face heating up like a stove.
(Jul. 29, 2011 2:45 PM)storm dranzer Wrote: [ -> ] (Jul. 29, 2011 2:37 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]Date at 14/15. 13 is too young in my opinion. You will probably still be in that "Doing it just to do it" frame of mind, and it's just not fair to the other parties involved.
Dude, 2 people in my grade are SERIOUSLY dating. Thy are into each other
They are probably still in that "OMG I HAZ A GF!!!" or "OMG I HAZ NEW HOTTIE!!!" mindset. It'll pass. Give it a year. I'm a skeptic, that's, again, just my thoughts on the matter.
EDITED: Point taken.
(Jul. 29, 2011 11:09 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]Haha, that used to happen to me. It's awkward, isn't it? It's even worse when someone notices your face heating up like a stove.
(Jul. 29, 2011 2:45 PM)storm dranzer Wrote: [ -> ] (Jul. 29, 2011 2:37 PM)Temporal Wrote: [ -> ]Date at 14/15. 13 is too young in my opinion. You will probably still be in that "Doing it just to do it" frame of mind, and it's just not fair to the other parties involved.
Dude, 2 people in my grade are SERIOUSLY dating. Thy are into each other
Sucks to be them. They are probably still in that "OMG I HAZ A GF!!!" or "OMG I HAZ NEW HOTTIE!!!" mindset. It'll pass. Give it a year. I'm a skeptic, that's, again, just my thoughts on the matter.
Okay, seriously? You are incredibly close minded. You just passed judgment upon two people whom you don't even know. Love has no age, gender, or racial restrictions. It can happen to any two people at any time.