(Jan. 17, 2016 5:49 AM)Get Rekt Wrote: Im trying to get out of the friendzone, any tips? And she asked me if i miss her like what the carp you doing m8.
( SHE HATES BEYBLADES) I guess.
There's no such thing as the friend zone. In my experience, what I once perceived as the "friendzone" was actually a state in which I was too scared to tell the girl my feelings, and I processed this constant state of liking the girl, but not being liked back, but not being rejected (because I didn't tell her anything), as being pushed in the "friendzone". It's an easy misconception to fall into - she's still your friend, and acts like your friend, but isn't romantic with you as you wish she would be, so you process that into this state of self pity where you feel as if the reason for your rejection is that she sees you only as a friend, when in reality, the reason she only sees you as a friend is because you haven't actually said that you want to be something greater than a friend.
The solution to "get out of the friendzone" is just tell her straight up how you feel. That way, there's no misconception on her part that you're romantically interested in her (therefore, not just seen as a good friend). Now, even if she rejects you, if she's a halfway decent human being she won't laugh at you or shun you, and you can still be friends. Not "friendzoned" mind you, friends, because you've actually been romantically rejected, and the false state of the friendzone is usually agreed to be a state in which you're not fully rejected. However, hopefully it works out and she reciprocates the feelings, in which case, huzzah. I really hope that happens for you.
Now, if she hates Beyblades, as long as you don't carry them around all the time, play them around her all the time, or talk about them all the time, it shouldn't be a problem. But even if she really despises them, to the point where you can't even mention them or really be yourself, this still isn't a huge problem. The proper sentiment is that you should find someone who has the same interests as you (or at least respects yours). However, I'm guessing you're in middle/high school, and personally, I think you can be as shallow as you want. After all, school relationships don't really go anywhere in the long run. It's just something fun that you do to get your foot in the water when it comes to handling dating and relationships in your adult life, where it matters. Of course, this sentiment varies from person to person, and if her not liking Beyblade or sharing your interests is a deal-breaker to you, then so be it. But if you still find other admirable traits in her, like she has a nice face, she's funny, she smiles at you more than other girls, and she doesn't spray that stingy liquid in your eyes when you walk up to her, and you're still attracted to her all the same, go for it. At your age, you're not going to have to connect on some deep emotional level to make a basic middle/high school relationship work out.
That's not how the Force works.