Hm, it's true. Not much you can do about it, because you can't freshen spoiled milk. We could go banning members, but that doesn't really make us look like a happy forum, and it's just not right.
I think if someone's acting out, the best thing you can do is either:
A. Call them on it-Yeah sure. Just be polite and don't start an argument. It derails the thread and hurts your image, too.
B. Report them-Meh, I guess. But I think, personally, that the mods don't have much more power than the members in this case, other than warning them. The problem with that is you can't fence in the wind, and if you ban them that really doesn't help them become better people in life. Remember, there is no such thing as a bad person. Rather, there is a person who bad things have happened to and made them act out.
C. Ignore it-Erm...not quite sure. It COULD work and make them drop the fight, or it could make them even more angry and start getting really mad. It's a risk, and I don't like it...
Additional thing: I strongly oppose putting quotes in your signatures. Sure, sometimes they can be just funny moments, but I've also seen a lot of mean and stupid things in there. Sometimes just peoples derps, and its not too great to be on the other end of the spectrum-seeing your mistake being laughed at. Take Th!nks hall of shame. Just the title makes it bad! Some things are funny though, so I guess just be careful what you put in there.
I think if someone's acting out, the best thing you can do is either:
A. Call them on it-Yeah sure. Just be polite and don't start an argument. It derails the thread and hurts your image, too.
B. Report them-Meh, I guess. But I think, personally, that the mods don't have much more power than the members in this case, other than warning them. The problem with that is you can't fence in the wind, and if you ban them that really doesn't help them become better people in life. Remember, there is no such thing as a bad person. Rather, there is a person who bad things have happened to and made them act out.
C. Ignore it-Erm...not quite sure. It COULD work and make them drop the fight, or it could make them even more angry and start getting really mad. It's a risk, and I don't like it...
Additional thing: I strongly oppose putting quotes in your signatures. Sure, sometimes they can be just funny moments, but I've also seen a lot of mean and stupid things in there. Sometimes just peoples derps, and its not too great to be on the other end of the spectrum-seeing your mistake being laughed at. Take Th!nks hall of shame. Just the title makes it bad! Some things are funny though, so I guess just be careful what you put in there.