Hmph,hmph,I want to dig in to this discussion,so,I think this rule should be inforced.Beyblade is just a game and there is no need to get serious and angry with other people,just let it be.

(Sep. 05, 2011 11:59 PM)Hazel Wrote:There is a difference between mini-modding and saying "You know that's on Bey Wiki, right?" and posting a link. I said that if someone calls me a douche for not answering an easily searchable question, so be it.(Sep. 05, 2011 10:41 PM)Bluezee Wrote:(Sep. 05, 2011 10:33 PM)Temporal Wrote: But we also must try to educate the newbies ourselves. Of course, I'm going to rant. If another incident occurs when something easily searchable is overlooked, and in the wrong place at that, I will say so. If I am called a douche for it, so be it, I'm a douche to that person. I care not for your impression of me, I'm here to have fun. Now that I think of it, isn't that Bluezee's argument?
That is exactly it.
The post you're quoting actually indicates "mini-modding" behavior, if I'm not mistaken. Which is something you indicated not approving of. Actually, it's mini-modding at best - at worst, ranting at people for making simple mistakes is outright unnecessary and offensive posting for a reason that is not your responsibility.
Honestly, it's not hard to respond to things in an intelligent and contributory, or even "disciplinary" method, without coming off like you've got the better part of a railspike lodged in your colon. I've been here less than a full month, but I've read through nearly every thread in the Beyblading sections almost to their entirety, observed everyone's posting habits, and it's easy for me to see who is and is not guilty of responding in particularly unnecessary, and offensive, manners.
To post in an intelligent format, asserting that you know what you're talking about, without coming off as some punk teenager with asperger's syndrome and a vendetta about it, should be the primary objective of everyone on this board, especially people aiming for the "Advanced Member" status. I don't care how knowledgable someone is, if they come off like a spoiled child with absolutely no sense of respect or tolerance, they may as well be slamming their face into their keyboard for all the value they have.
(Sep. 06, 2011 12:08 AM)Temporal Wrote:(Sep. 05, 2011 11:59 PM)Hazel Wrote:There is a difference between mini-modding and saying "You know that's on Bey Wiki, right?" and posting a link. I said that if someone calls me a douche for not answering an easily searchable question, so be it.(Sep. 05, 2011 10:41 PM)Bluezee Wrote: That is exactly it.
The post you're quoting actually indicates "mini-modding" behavior, if I'm not mistaken. Which is something you indicated not approving of. Actually, it's mini-modding at best - at worst, ranting at people for making simple mistakes is outright unnecessary and offensive posting for a reason that is not your responsibility.
Honestly, it's not hard to respond to things in an intelligent and contributory, or even "disciplinary" method, without coming off like you've got the better part of a railspike lodged in your colon. I've been here less than a full month, but I've read through nearly every thread in the Beyblading sections almost to their entirety, observed everyone's posting habits, and it's easy for me to see who is and is not guilty of responding in particularly unnecessary, and offensive, manners.
To post in an intelligent format, asserting that you know what you're talking about, without coming off as some punk teenager with asperger's syndrome and a vendetta about it, should be the primary objective of everyone on this board, especially people aiming for the "Advanced Member" status. I don't care how knowledgable someone is, if they come off like a spoiled child with absolutely no sense of respect or tolerance, they may as well be slamming their face into their keyboard for all the value they have.
(Sep. 06, 2011 1:08 AM)Temporal Wrote: Maybe "rant" is the wrong word. To be honest, I agree. One shouldn't intentionally try to be someone people hate. Maybe I did miss your point. My fault in entirety. I thought you were referring to mini-modding as pointing things out that normally an admin/mod would. Yes, in the sense of the word, ranting is pretty detrimental to the idea of a community, but it happens. We should try to limit it, but you shouldn't let oversights fly, so explain calmly. But that's not really on topic, is it?
Member Wrote:You're wrong, this is why, I'm rightThis makes the new members feel inferior
(Sep. 06, 2011 4:22 AM)Kai-V Wrote: Is there so much offense in being told that you are simply wrong though ? For instance, recently two people answered a question with a wrong answer, and in order to correct them for whoever might view the topic, I wrote : "You are wrong", and apparently that was really badly taken.
I think there are indeed cases where people are wrong, and that just has to be taken, not in an offensive way.
(Sep. 06, 2011 4:32 AM)KidTala Wrote: They're probably so used to getting told they are wrong in such a polite form. If they get offended, they get offended. Simple. It shouldn't bother anyone because they're expected to get spoon fed by members if you understand what I mean.
(Sep. 06, 2011 4:37 AM)Hazel Wrote:(Sep. 06, 2011 4:32 AM)KidTala Wrote: They're probably so used to getting told they are wrong in such a polite form. If they get offended, they get offended. Simple. It shouldn't bother anyone because they're expected to get spoon fed by members if you understand what I mean.
Spoon feeding is not in any way what is being discussed, here. It's quite easy to be clear, concise, and polite, without spoon feeding, when educating another person.
It's a matter of users simply being mature enough to squelch their first instinct to make a fuss, and opting instead to post in a calm, level-headed manner.
(Sep. 06, 2011 4:53 AM)KidTala Wrote:(Sep. 06, 2011 4:37 AM)Hazel Wrote:(Sep. 06, 2011 4:32 AM)KidTala Wrote: They're probably so used to getting told they are wrong in such a polite form. If they get offended, they get offended. Simple. It shouldn't bother anyone because they're expected to get spoon fed by members if you understand what I mean.
Spoon feeding is not in any way what is being discussed, here. It's quite easy to be clear, concise, and polite, without spoon feeding, when educating another person.
It's a matter of users simply being mature enough to squelch their first instinct to make a fuss, and opting instead to post in a calm, level-headed manner.
Yes I see where you're coming from. My mistake.
But what I mean is when a user, like Kai-V, explains to another user what they said was wrong, they get offended because someone like Kai-V explains to them in a way that is isn't negative but seems like it is rude or sarcastic.
Like what I mentioned Kai-V doesn't mean to say what she said in a way that the user she is replying to meant. Members say things to other users that they take offensive.
(Sep. 06, 2011 5:07 AM)Kai-V Wrote: "You are wrong".
What is up with that ... There is no sarcasm, nothing, I am just stating a fact. Obviously, there is a difference between being told that you are wrong about something as experimental as customizations, and about how many versions of Mercury Anubius exist, because in the latter case you are either right or wrong, the subject of discussion is a fact.
And the people involved in that were not new kids on the site.
(Sep. 06, 2011 5:14 AM)Kai-V Wrote: I was referring to a case where telling someone that they are wrong, as was discussed a few posts ago, could, or should be accepted. Of course there is always a way to say it, but I do not think this nuance was mentioned during the conversation, since the consensus seemed to be that you could not tell someone that they were wrong anymore.
(Sep. 05, 2011 1:14 PM)Dan Wrote: I notice whenever I give my opinion to others in the customizations forum they decide to not explain their opinion at all when I am interested in what they have to say. Really boring just because I have some italics on my name no one decides to share their own ideas as if what I've said is set in stone or something when what I'm usually interested in is others opinions and thoughts. :V
/tangent lol