Bullies

Have you ever delt with bullies? Tell me about it.
I used to get bullied all the time as a kid, since I usually sat alone to read a book or hang out with one buddy. Nowadays, Im in high school so theres a lot of possibilities to make friends. Im also outgoing and willing to accept hang-outs, so people think Im reliable and awesome to be with. Im considering about joining a sport, so some people who used to bully me are starting to be more friendly with me
It happened a lot last year about Beyblades. I just ignored them until one of them punched me. Thankfully it was the end of the year so I haven’t seen those kids since.
Now I just has this kid who WAS my best friend but now she is mean and them acts like I did something wrong. Last Friday she did this and I am dreading talking to the teacher tomorrow because she is very good at lying.
I'm homeschooled so no. But I'm glad I don't have to go through the trouble of those annoying people made of evi- I mean those people who just try to annoy you XD

No but bullies usually are people who go through rough times and take their anger and frustration out on others.
(May. 20, 2019  5:57 AM)boigamer25 Wrote: I'm homeschooled so no. But I'm glad I don't have to go through the trouble of those annoying people made of evi- I mean those people who just try to annoy you XD

No but bullies usually are people who go through rough times and take their anger and frustration out on others.

I'm homeshcooled to! Except for mondays tho.

People are always bulling me. They say I'm too old to be playing beyblade and bakugan.
I wouldn't really call this bullying, also since i wanted to share this story, but didn't know where, this is the best placeto share it.

Last year when i was in seventh grade, i got put in a group chat with six other boys, long story short, we became very good friends, atleast, that's what i thought. The longer i knew them, the more manipulative they became, they insult eachother, and insult other kids they disagree with, pretty much the class, i went along with this, since they were pretty much my only "friends" in the class, and didn't want to go back to my loner life. A year ago, they threw my water bottle in the trash can, so i went to pick it up, after i did they called me a hobo for digging through the trash. Next day they start ignoring me, i don't think much of it, stupid me. This goes on for a few weeks, until they game a paper. On that paper were some "challenges" i had to complete (they did this with others in the group). Bein the gullible me, i did them. Next thing i know i'm back in their group. Until the end of the school year. When we were hanging out in some forest, i got "kicked" out, again, thanks to the reasons i'm not willing to share. This was after the school year ended, luckily for me i leave the country to visit my family, so i didn't have to deal with them. Until my parents didn't start to get suspicious. They found out about the whole thing, and when 8th grade started, we comfronted my homeroom teacher about it. Then they accepted me again, just because they saw my parents talking to my homeroom teacher. Dumb me accepted their "apology", this time without any challenges. This went on for a week, until the kicked me out againg for reasons i'm not willing to share. This time i confronted my parents instantly about it. I was sent to talk with the school counselor about this. They didn't get in any trouble.
They called me a "female dog" for telling my parents about it, and have insulted me nonstop, when i tried to "fire back" they just mocked me and laughed. This was at the start of the year, and school is ending, for me, in ten days (yay). Since then i started hanging out with other kids in class, and got to know more people. Luckily for me i'm leaving this school, and won't be seeing them anymore, since i was always better than them in term of grades, meaning that they have no chance of getting in the same school as me, thank god.

So yeah, i guess that's it.
(May. 20, 2019  11:51 AM)BounduAtakku Wrote: I wouldn't really call this bullying, also since i wanted to share this story, but didn't know where, this is the best placeto share it.

Last year when i was in seventh grade, i got put in a group chat with six other boys, long story short, we became very good friends, atleast, that's what i thought. The longer i knew them, the more manipulative they became, they insult eachother, and insult other kids they disagree with, pretty much the class, i went along with this, since they were pretty much my only "friends" in the class, and didn't want to go back to my loner life. A year ago, they threw my water bottle in the trash can, so i went to pick it up, after i did they called me a hobo for digging through the trash. Next day they start ignoring me, i don't think much of it, stupid me. This goes on for a few weeks, until they game a paper. On that paper were some "challenges" i had to complete (they did this with others in the group). Bein the gullible me, i did them. Next thing i know i'm back in their group. Until the end of the school year. When we were hanging out in some forest, i got "kicked" out, again, thanks to the reasons i'm not willing to share. This was after the school year ended, luckily for me i leave the country to visit my family, so i didn't have to deal with them. Until my parents didn't start to get suspicious. They found out about the whole thing, and when 8th grade started, we comfronted my homeroom teacher about it. Then they accepted me again, just because they saw my parents talking to my homeroom teacher. Dumb me accepted their "apology", this time without any challenges. This went on for a week, until the kicked me out againg for reasons i'm not willing to share. This time i confronted my parents instantly about it. I was sent to talk with the school counselor about this. They didn't get in any trouble.
They called me a "female dog" for telling my parents about it, and have insulted me nonstop, when i tried to "fire back" they just mocked me and laughed. This was at the start of the year, and school is ending, for me, in ten days (yay). Since then i started hanging out with other kids in class, and got to know more people. Luckily for me i'm leaving this school, and won't be seeing them anymore, since i was always better than them in term of grades, meaning that they have no chance of getting in the same school as me, thank god.

So yeah, i guess that's it.

happy for you man
(May. 20, 2019  2:03 PM)BoogietheBlader Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  11:51 AM)BounduAtakku Wrote: I wouldn't really call this bullying, also since i wanted to share this story, but didn't know where, this is the best placeto share it.

Last year when i was in seventh grade, i got put in a group chat with six other boys, long story short, we became very good friends, atleast, that's what i thought. The longer i knew them, the more manipulative they became, they insult eachother, and insult other kids they disagree with, pretty much the class, i went along with this, since they were pretty much my only "friends" in the class, and didn't want to go back to my loner life. A year ago, they threw my water bottle in the trash can, so i went to pick it up, after i did they called me a hobo for digging through the trash. Next day they start ignoring me, i don't think much of it, stupid me. This goes on for a few weeks, until they game a paper. On that paper were some "challenges" i had to complete (they did this with others in the group). Bein the gullible me, i did them. Next thing i know i'm back in their group. Until the end of the school year. When we were hanging out in some forest, i got "kicked" out, again, thanks to the reasons i'm not willing to share. This was after the school year ended, luckily for me i leave the country to visit my family, so i didn't have to deal with them. Until my parents didn't start to get suspicious. They found out about the whole thing, and when 8th grade started, we comfronted my homeroom teacher about it. Then they accepted me again, just because they saw my parents talking to my homeroom teacher. Dumb me accepted their "apology", this time without any challenges. This went on for a week, until the kicked me out againg for reasons i'm not willing to share. This time i confronted my parents instantly about it. I was sent to talk with the school counselor about this. They didn't get in any trouble.
They called me a "female dog" for telling my parents about it, and have insulted me nonstop, when i tried to "fire back" they just mocked me and laughed. This was at the start of the year, and school is ending, for me, in ten days (yay). Since then i started hanging out with other kids in class, and got to know more people. Luckily for me i'm leaving this school, and won't be seeing them anymore, since i was always better than them in term of grades, meaning that they have no chance of getting in the same school as me, thank god.

So yeah, i guess that's it.

happy for you man

Thanks. I appreaciate that.
(May. 20, 2019  2:22 PM)BounduAtakku Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  2:03 PM)BoogietheBlader Wrote: happy for you man

Thanks. I appreaciate that.

were bladers. We stick together man.
(May. 20, 2019  4:21 PM)BoogietheBlader Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  2:22 PM)BounduAtakku Wrote: Thanks. I appreaciate that.

were bladers. We stick together man.

Yep
Anyway, bullies eventually stop bugging you so I think none of us should worry. A couple weeks ago, I was worried about a boy who kept pickings on me. Eventually he stopped because I was nice and I always sat with my new friend's group in English
(May. 20, 2019  5:31 PM)XSabxManiacX Wrote: Anyway, bullies eventually stop bugging you so I think none of us should worry. A couple weeks ago, I was worried about a boy who kept pickings on me. Eventually he stopped because I was nice and I always sat with my new friend's group in English

THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP
(May. 20, 2019  5:31 PM)XSabxManiacX Wrote: Anyway, bullies eventually stop bugging you so I think none of us should worry. A couple weeks ago, I was worried about a boy who kept pickings on me. Eventually he stopped because I was nice and I always sat with my new friend's group in English

Bullies never leave me alone
(May. 20, 2019  6:08 PM)Zyndicater Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  5:31 PM)XSabxManiacX Wrote: Anyway, bullies eventually stop bugging you so I think none of us should worry. A couple weeks ago, I was worried about a boy who kept pickings on me. Eventually he stopped because I was nice and I always sat with my new friend's group in English

Bullies never leave me alone

What goes around, comes around.
(May. 20, 2019  11:51 AM)BounduAtakku Wrote: I wouldn't really call this bullying, also since i wanted to share this story, but didn't know where, this is the best placeto share it.

Last year when i was in seventh grade, i got put in a group chat with six other boys, long story short, we became very good friends, atleast, that's what i thought. The longer i knew them, the more manipulative they became, they insult eachother, and insult other kids they disagree with, pretty much the class, i went along with this, since they were pretty much my only "friends" in the class, and didn't want to go back to my loner life. A year ago, they threw my water bottle in the trash can, so i went to pick it up, after i did they called me a hobo for digging through the trash. Next day they start ignoring me, i don't think much of it, stupid me. This goes on for a few weeks, until they game a paper. On that paper were some "challenges" i had to complete (they did this with others in the group). Bein the gullible me, i did them. Next thing i know i'm back in their group. Until the end of the school year. When we were hanging out in some forest, i got "kicked" out, again, thanks to the reasons i'm not willing to share. This was after the school year ended, luckily for me i leave the country to visit my family, so i didn't have to deal with them. Until my parents didn't start to get suspicious. They found out about the whole thing, and when 8th grade started, we comfronted my homeroom teacher about it. Then they accepted me again, just because they saw my parents talking to my homeroom teacher. Dumb me accepted their "apology", this time without any challenges. This went on for a week, until the kicked me out againg for reasons i'm not willing to share. This time i confronted my parents instantly about it. I was sent to talk with the school counselor about this. They didn't get in any trouble.
They called me a "female dog" for telling my parents about it, and have insulted me nonstop, when i tried to "fire back" they just mocked me and laughed. This was at the start of the year, and school is ending, for me, in ten days (yay). Since then i started hanging out with other kids in class, and got to know more people. Luckily for me i'm leaving this school, and won't be seeing them anymore, since i was always better than them in term of grades, meaning that they have no chance of getting in the same school as me, thank god.

So yeah, i guess that's it I guess
Well, you did the right thing by telling your parents. But if that were me... Those guys would get yeeted across the hall over and over again. XD
(May. 20, 2019  6:08 PM)Zyndicater Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  5:31 PM)XSabxManiacX Wrote: Anyway, bullies eventually stop bugging you so I think none of us should worry. A couple weeks ago, I was worried about a boy who kept pickings on me. Eventually he stopped because I was nice and I always sat with my new friend's group in English

Bullies never leave me alone

Then thats their problem. If its severe enough (to the point theres bodily harm, etc), then tell an adult. Theyll eventually leave you alone if you dont react, or if you stand up to them. Try to find activities to do so you wont run into them
People can be jerks, but I won't really say I'm bullied but it's more of people making racist jokes and there's nothing I can do about it as Teachers don't care and my school is 98% White people (no offense to anyone who is white) but I don't really care as I'm used to it and it was as bad as it was in Middle school and I feel people are more mature now as I'm in 10 grade.
Meh, I never usually deal with m=being bullied at school (mostly cause I'm the one being a bully or because I'm not a total dweeb) however when I was little I went to this one school that was at a church and they would mix Elementary school kids and Middle school kids in the same school. And this was WAY before that law got passed where punching is illegal. So u would be like a little 7 year old but you would be constantly be bullied by kids in 8th or 7th grade. It was HORRIBLE I hv no clue what the owners of that school were thinking. Another time I had to deal with bullying was at church when I was 8 but this story I would be happy to tell. One day at church there was this 14 year old kid who stole this 7 year old kids jacket (I hv no clue why he did but he did) originally I thought it was some kind of joke until the kid's older bro walked up to me and said " Hey Avery! Some weird teenage kid just stole my little brother's jacket can u help me help him?" I said ok cause I loved teaching bullies a lesson. We later got back to where he kid's brother was and we marched over there. We later got to where the teen was and I demanded the teen to give it back to the younger kid who he stole it from. He said no and swung the jacket at us and cut me with the zipper. When that happened I was furious! I then bolted at him super fast and punched him so hard in the face that it knocked his glasses off. While he was distracted and tried to pick up the stolen jacket I grabbed the jacket before he could and gave it to the little kid. The kid and his older brother said thanks and gave me some candy as a way of saying thank u. I then ran outta there and got back with my parents and after that we never went to that church again. -Avery
(May. 20, 2019  9:23 PM)Avery Purple999 Wrote: Meh, I never usually deal with m=being bullied at school (mostly cause I'm the one being a bully or because I'm not a total dweeb) however when I was little I went to this one school that was at a church and they would mix Elementary school kids and Middle school kids in the same school. And this was WAY before that law got passed where punching is illegal. So u would be like a little 7 year old but you would be constantly be bullied by kids in 8th or 7th grade. It was HORRIBLE I hv no clue what the owners of that school were thinking. Another time I had to deal with bullying was at church when I was 8 but this story I would be happy to tell. One day at church there was this 14 year old kid who stole this 7 year old kids jacket (I hv no clue why he did but he did) originally I thought it was some kind of joke until the kid's older bro walked up to me and said " Hey Avery! Some weird teenage kid just stole my little brother's jacket can u help me help him?" I said ok cause I loved teaching bullies a lesson. We later got back to where he kid's brother was and we marched over there. We later got to where the teen was and I demanded the teen to give it back to the younger kid who he stole it from. He said no and swung the jacket at us and cut me with the zipper. When that happened I was furious! I then bolted at him super fast and punched him so hard in the face that it knocked his glasses off. While he was distracted and tried to pick up the stolen jacket I grabbed the jacket before he could and gave it to the little kid. The kid and his older brother said thanks and gave me some candy as a  way of saying thank u. I then ran outta there and got back with my parents and after that we never went to that church again. -Avery

Your story doesn't really make sense and I don't really feel bad for you as you seem like you're a bully. I would say no offense but I don't really care
(May. 20, 2019  9:23 PM)Avery Purple999 Wrote: Meh, I never usually deal with m=being bullied at school (mostly cause I'm the one being a bully or because I'm not a total dweeb) however when I was little I went to this one school that was at a church and they would mix Elementary school kids and Middle school kids in the same school. And this was WAY before that law got passed where punching is illegal. So u would be like a little 7 year old but you would be constantly be bullied by kids in 8th or 7th grade. It was HORRIBLE I hv no clue what the owners of that school were thinking. Another time I had to deal with bullying was at church when I was 8 but this story I would be happy to tell. One day at church there was this 14 year old kid who stole this 7 year old kids jacket (I hv no clue why he did but he did) originally I thought it was some kind of joke until the kid's older bro walked up to me and said " Hey Avery! Some weird teenage kid just stole my little brother's jacket can u help me help him?" I said ok cause I loved teaching bullies a lesson. We later got back to where he kid's brother was and we marched over there. We later got to where the teen was and I demanded the teen to give it back to the younger kid who he stole it from. He said no and swung the jacket at us and cut me with the zipper. When that happened I was furious! I then bolted at him super fast and punched him so hard in the face that it knocked his glasses off. While he was distracted and tried to pick up the stolen jacket I grabbed the jacket before he could and gave it to the little kid. The kid and his older brother said thanks and gave me some candy as a  way of saying thank u. I then ran outta there and got back with my parents and after that we never went to that church again. -Avery

Thats not only being a bully; you are being one yourself along with uncontrollable behavior. Especially when putting yourself into a confrontation and allowing yourself to go violent. Its as bad as being a bully
(May. 20, 2019  9:36 PM)XSabxManiacX Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  9:23 PM)Avery Purple999 Wrote: Meh, I never usually deal with m=being bullied at school (mostly cause I'm the one being a bully or because I'm not a total dweeb) however when I was little I went to this one school that was at a church and they would mix Elementary school kids and Middle school kids in the same school. And this was WAY before that law got passed where punching is illegal. So u would be like a little 7 year old but you would be constantly be bullied by kids in 8th or 7th grade. It was HORRIBLE I hv no clue what the owners of that school were thinking. Another time I had to deal with bullying was at church when I was 8 but this story I would be happy to tell. One day at church there was this 14 year old kid who stole this 7 year old kids jacket (I hv no clue why he did but he did) originally I thought it was some kind of joke until the kid's older bro walked up to me and said " Hey Avery! Some weird teenage kid just stole my little brother's jacket can u help me help him?" I said ok cause I loved teaching bullies a lesson. We later got back to where he kid's brother was and we marched over there. We later got to where the teen was and I demanded the teen to give it back to the younger kid who he stole it from. He said no and swung the jacket at us and cut me with the zipper. When that happened I was furious! I then bolted at him super fast and punched him so hard in the face that it knocked his glasses off. While he was distracted and tried to pick up the stolen jacket I grabbed the jacket before he could and gave it to the little kid. The kid and his older brother said thanks and gave me some candy as a  way of saying thank u. I then ran outta there and got back with my parents and after that we never went to that church again. -Avery

Thats not only being a bully; you are being one yourself along with uncontrollable behavior. Especially when putting yourself into a confrontation and allowing yourself to go violent. Its as bad as being a bully
At the time it wasn't that bad and plus I was helping the kid caus back then punching someone wasn't a crime. Heck! My parents even took me out to eat cause of what I did. In my opinion violence is usually not the answer but if someone is doing something that was a crime (like stealing) it's sometimes the only answer. I mean a wise man once sai do not reason with those that cannot be reasoned with. -Avery
(May. 20, 2019  9:44 PM)Avery Purple999 Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  9:36 PM)XSabxManiacX Wrote: Thats not only being a bully; you are being one yourself along with uncontrollable behavior. Especially when putting yourself into a confrontation and allowing yourself to go violent. Its as bad as being a bully
At the time it wasn't that bad and plus I was helping the kid caus back then punching someone wasn't a crime. Heck! My parents even took me out to eat cause of what I did. In my opinion violence is usually not the answer but if someone is doing something that was a crime (like stealing) it's sometimes the only answer. I mean a wise man once sai do not reason with those that cannot be reasoned with. -Avery
Dude, you could’ve brought an adult into it instead of punching the poor kid.
(May. 20, 2019  9:31 PM)DrainBladerAMVS Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  9:23 PM)Avery Purple999 Wrote: Meh, I never usually deal with m=being bullied at school (mostly cause I'm the one being a bully or because I'm not a total dweeb) however when I was little I went to this one school that was at a church and they would mix Elementary school kids and Middle school kids in the same school. And this was WAY before that law got passed where punching is illegal. So u would be like a little 7 year old but you would be constantly be bullied by kids in 8th or 7th grade. It was HORRIBLE I hv no clue what the owners of that school were thinking. Another time I had to deal with bullying was at church when I was 8 but this story I would be happy to tell. One day at church there was this 14 year old kid who stole this 7 year old kids jacket (I hv no clue why he did but he did) originally I thought it was some kind of joke until the kid's older bro walked up to me and said " Hey Avery! Some weird teenage kid just stole my little brother's jacket can u help me help him?" I said ok cause I loved teaching bullies a lesson. We later got back to where he kid's brother was and we marched over there. We later got to where the teen was and I demanded the teen to give it back to the younger kid who he stole it from. He said no and swung the jacket at us and cut me with the zipper. When that happened I was furious! I then bolted at him super fast and punched him so hard in the face that it knocked his glasses off. While he was distracted and tried to pick up the stolen jacket I grabbed the jacket before he could and gave it to the little kid. The kid and his older brother said thanks and gave me some candy as a  way of saying thank u. I then ran outta there and got back with my parents and after that we never went to that church again. -Avery

Your story doesn't really make sense and I don't really feel bad for you as you seem like you're a bully. I would say no offense but I don't really care

That's the point! It didn't make since! I mean that teen was a total weirdo! Why did he even steal that kids jacket?! It was very weird but it rlly happened (just ask my parents). And hey some of u guys r dorks, nerds, dweebs, geeks, and dworks and ppl like that need to be bullied cause they need to know that there r cool and things that aren't. And if they think they're cool and rlly aren't that's the same as someone thinking of themselves as something else they aren't like a guy thinking he's a girlor vice versa. Like a literal girl! Not just a dude thinking he's more feminine than masculine. Cause that's ok but if a guy thinks he's an actual girl it's just gay and wrong. Or someone who thinking they're act when they r a cat when they r a human. All I'm doing is keeping the natural order cause they r some who r cool (#Guilty) and some that aren't. -Avery
(May. 20, 2019  9:52 PM)Avery Purple999 Wrote:
(May. 20, 2019  9:31 PM)DrainBladerAMVS Wrote: Your story doesn't really make sense and I don't really feel bad for you as you seem like you're a bully. I would say no offense but I don't really care

That's the point! It didn't make since! I mean that teen was a total weirdo! Why did he even steal that kids jacket?! It was very weird but it rlly happened (just ask my parents). And hey some of u guys r dorks, nerds, dweebs, geeks, and dworks and ppl like that need to be bullied cause they need to know that there r cool and things that aren't. And if they think they're cool and rlly aren't that's the same as someone thinking of themselves as something else they aren't like a guy thinking he's a girlor vice versa. Like a literal girl! Not just a dude thinking he's more feminine than masculine. Cause that's ok but if a guy thinks he's an actual girl it's just gay and wrong. Or someone who thinking they're act when they r a cat when they r a human. All I'm doing is keeping the natural order cause they r some who r cool (#Guilty) and some that aren't. -Avery

Stealing a jacket doesnt allow people to hurt others. Thats like getting rejected and you think you can explode the whole world. Anyone with emotional intelligence can find a peaceful and better solution. We arent cavemen who think we can be savage