(Nov. 13, 2009 1:10 AM)harleyquinn Wrote: I should of speciffied obssed sorry if everyone misundertood. I am an otakyu allways have been and im not about to stop. I ment that ot of all of the anime i have ver watched beyblades(orginal) is still in my top ten. It's not like i do nothing but think of beyblades all day. Sorry if i wasnt specific. and thanks to everyone for beaing nice even though my description was apparenly not descriptive enough
Think less about cartoons and spinning tops, spend more time thinking about your baby.
Perhaps you should have left that part out of your introduction. It's going to be hard for people to take you seriously as a responsible mother when you can't spell (or use spell check), claim to be an "otaku" (which mind you is used primarily as an insult outside of the american anime community), and go about flaunting the fact that you are a teen mother (on spinning top forums).
I don't know where you're from, and I realize that being a teen mom is considered relatively normal in some places, including much of the USA, but where I'm from it is generally frowned upon and considered irresponsible. I can appreciate that carp happens sometimes that you never meant for, but the least you can do is try to behave in a mature manner.
I can almost guarantee that if you opened your intro omitting the information about your age, and you child, worked to gain the respect of the community, and then this information casually came up- people would be much more comfortable with it.
I'm not saying that you should hide who/what you are, but there is a time, and a place for some things, and your introduction on a toy forum is not the time, nor place.
That said, I don't think there is any reason for you to not enjoy the game, and take part in this community. You are living whatever life you choose to, and that's fine. I just think you should understand why you are receiving hostility.