EDIT: Swear those replies weren't there before
Looks will matter to you subconsciously, they are the single best predictor of how long a relationship will last (similar levels of physical attractiveness). I used to think it was all feelings too, until I realised I lose interest in womem I don't find physically attractive (as well as mentally/emotionally attractive, of course). Not that it's the only thing, it plays a slightly smaller part for me than other factors (intelligence, and probably sense of humour), but it's still large, as much as I wish it weren't.
Looks will matter to you subconsciously, they are the single best predictor of how long a relationship will last (similar levels of physical attractiveness). I used to think it was all feelings too, until I realised I lose interest in womem I don't find physically attractive (as well as mentally/emotionally attractive, of course). Not that it's the only thing, it plays a slightly smaller part for me than other factors (intelligence, and probably sense of humour), but it's still large, as much as I wish it weren't.