In Loving Memory

This thread is to talk about loved ones you've lost whether it be a parent, sibling, or pet, just someone who has touched your heart.

There are a few rules to follow so this thread doesn't get cluttered up with spam

1. dont just say " my _____ died a month ago"
go into depth explain what they looked, what they meant to you, and your favourite memories with them.

2. dont be rude
if someone posts about losing a fish or whatever
dont reply with something like "its just a fish, get a new one and move on"

one reason i made this thread was this song
[spoiler]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcQ3iegpZTc[\spoiler]

another was that maybe someone is really feeling bad about losing someone and they need comforting (which i hope everyone here will help with)

and to whoever lost a loved one my prayers and thoughts go out to you and that special someone.

Well this is hard to bring up.

My actual third dog, from about four years ago, was senselessly ran over by someone in a junky 1980's pickup truck. I don't know if the man felt too much shame to turn back around or if business was more important. I am sane enough to not go batcarp on another human being over an animal- but that seriously upset me.
(Oct. 14, 2011  8:32 PM)Codeine Extorts Wrote: Well this is hard to bring up.

My actual third dog, from about four years ago, was senselessly ran over by someone in a junky 1980's pickup truck. I don't know if the man felt too much shame to turn back around or if business was more important. I am sane enough to not go batcarp on another human being over an animal- but that seriously upset me.

im sorry for that loss

i guess im not sane cause i would have gone after him (i wouldnt hurt/kill them)
but i would definatly have made him pay for it (i love animals)

I lost my step grandfather in august, I use to always hang out with him, I actully beybladed with him and would tell him about all of the combos and things like that. So everytime I beyblade it's like a memory of him. R.I.P. Pe-pop, that is what I use to call him.
My brother. I never knew him, but my mother has put a lot of pressure on me from it. It's like I have to live for us both. I used to feel him. He passed on, but I knew when his spirit was around. It was this sense of remorse for not being able to be a part of the family, but a feeling of hope and relief at the same time that he was never forgotten.
Wow Dei, that's sad. In Loving Memory...

My GrandFather had died when I was 1. He lived overseas and I never saw him. But I was his first GarndSon and he loved me.
On my first Birthday, He held a Birthday party for me on my B-Day, although I wasn't there. He even got a Huge photo of me for it. They had also send us a card to. I wish I could have met him. He had died naturally and he had lived a full life. In Loving Memory.
My uncle died recently from a cardiac arrest. We flew out to Texas the moment we heard the news. When we went to the funeral everybody was quiet and it was sad. He was very quiet, but he used to take me to the beach and we played football with my cousins

Oh yes, and sorry to everybody else who lost a dear one.
3 years ago today we had to put my cat (Calvin) down,

he was 17 1/2 years old (about 3-4 years older than i was)
i miss u buddy
Sorry Dragoon MS. That must have been hard. My friend's dog died a couple of days ago. Her name was Clover, and she was 13.
I've been relatively fortunate until a few years back. Well, a good friend of mine died of cancer some years back. The funny thing is, he was one of my better friends. Yet I'm starting to forget what he looked like. It's kind of a shame. It's a terrible feeling, y'know? You want to remember someone, then life gets in the way, then you forget. I feel like a douche. Funny, but I talked to him the day before he died. We actually had football practice. It's weird, you see someone one day, then you just don't anymore. I kinda wish I could remember his face better.

Last year my great aunt died. At first I was kinda numb about it and caught a lot of flak for not crying or anything. I mean, I can see why. I just didn't cry. She died of a heart attack while I was on my way to school. I kinda checked out that day.
My bro died before I was born. I never really knew much about him, but it still hurts. My mom is still hurting badly. We still have his old toys and stuff. I'm not sure entirely, but I think he died from heart complications. If he were here today, he would have down syndrome. He was 12-13 years old, 1-2 years older than me. On his birthday we went to his grave, and I cried.

My mom's bro died about a month and a half ago. Like Temporal, I just couldn't cry. I never met or knew much about him, but I'm still pretty upset. My mom told me that earlier in his life he had a problem with drug abuse. I initially thought that he died from that, but she told me that he went to rehab and he didn't go back. He died from an asthma attack. He was in his late 40s-early 50s I think.

My sisters boyfriend's dad died a month and a half ago, too. He died from I think, pancreatic cancer. See, this death really got me. He was always so nice to me, and helped me when I needed it. He stopped breathing in his house, and they took him to the hospital but couldn't resuscitate him. He was in his mid 50s.

My neighbor died about 3 and a half years ago. He was one of my best friends. Unfortunately, I was the last of our neighborhood group to see him alive. The ambulance came rushing into our vicinity and his mom came out screaming. Even before he died, he told me "If I start coughing and weezing, go get my mom." I agreed but he had went inside. His funeral was so overwhelming. He was 13 years old.

Geez, those are a lot of deaths Uncertain

Good song to listen to when your down: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmrOB_q3t...re=mh_lolz
Temporal
well if u went to the same school with him, look in an old yearbook, thats wat i do when i miss a friend i havent seen in forever. also sorry about ur loss

@Technologic
damn dude that is alot of deaths, seems like alot of heartbreak too me, i hope u and all the people affected by those deaths r doing ok now

anyway this is the song i listen to when there is a death in the family, or when i just want to think about that person more

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcQ3iegpZTc

the name of this thread comes from the name of this song,
i chose the one with the lyrics so u can get even more deep into the song
When I was little my grandfather died from canser, I was one of hs favrite people in the world but because I was so yonung I alwas took him for granted. Bedore he died he sent me his bible and $20.00.I still play my violin because he was the most exided that I was going to learn to play.
He died when I was 7 years old.
When ever Im thinking of him I play this song o my violin from mother 3
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idULzIIF950
theme of love
My Grandparents. They were my entire childhood back when me and my big sister were real little our parents worked 2 jobs to support us. They were unable to take care of us so my grandparents watched over us the whole while. My Granny loved me so much she would be in a fit if i was around and my papa heh he was a good man he was the kinda guy whom you could talk to for ours. It was all good until they had to go to a nursing home. Then things changed.

They were always in bed and they slowly began to wither away. My grandma was ok but she wasnt the same but my papa man life hit him hard he went from nice and kind to bitter and mean. He use to say things that make me laugh and then he became sour. It was only the beginning and it got worse. Much worse, in 2008 the year of misery I lost them My grandpa in may and my grandma in august. I went to two funerals that year and you all know the coup de grace known as the paint can. but still I was in the funeral I bawled my eyes I cried so hard you wouldn't believe and it still hurts. after that i was nervous the very mention of anything related to them got me wound up. I still cry to this day because they made me who i am and I wouldn't trade them for anything Else
My budgie, Dani, died a couple years back. I got her for Christmas when I was only 5 and she was my full responsibility. She was brought up a little bit by my aunt and was hand fed so when you put you fingers in the cage she would nibble them and it would tickle. She wasn't a scared bird. She brings back some good memories. She died when she was 8 years old which I think is quite a long life for a budgie. We just woke up morning and she was laying on the bottom of the cage, the weird thing was it was my parents anniversary (but they are still together).
TT_TT my pet budgie just died about 1 hour ago ago...
i didn't really have a real name for her...
she would be startled very easily but she wasn't to afraid of me...
she was normal in the morning i left home and came back at like 3:30 my sister tells me that she is on the bottom of the cage with her eyes closed...
we tried to help her but she died now...
I am so sorry.
thanx for the support vulcan blaze
My best friend died 4 days ago, he was a good friend always there when I needed him our best time together was when we when to a consert, we had the best time of our lives. 2 weeks later he died because he would give his money to gang members and they shot him I am still sad.
(Nov. 19, 2011  11:41 PM)Itachi8 Wrote: My best friend died 4 days ago, he was a good friend always there when I needed him our best time together was when we when to a consert, we had the best time of our lives. 2 weeks later he died because he would give his money to gang members and they shot him I am still sad.

They better be arrested.
They did but I'm still so angry and sad at the same time.
dont worry itachi8 were all here for u
Thanx it's good know people are supporting me.
A girl I went to school with died on Monday night/Tuesday morning. Her funeral was Friday, and it was very sad.
@itatchi8

dang dude i would be pissed hope ur holding up ok

@this thread

some of these storys about there losses r almost making me tear up

especially the one from clonetos
my grandparents r getting older and i love them so much my grandma taught me to cook some stuff and my grandpa always took/takes me fishing, hiking, to football games, to hockey games, and the list is endless for both of them, i know when one of them dies ill be crying until im dry