Boy/girl friend Thread

(Sep. 23, 2011  11:01 PM)® Wrote: IM SO MAD AT MY MOM RIGHT NOW! SHe now says I cant go to the football game tonight! I just wanted to see Breanna cheerleading! And she's telling me to make up a lie to her. Im like wdf? Why would I want to lie to the girl I most love in the whole wide world! I cant go because of the weather! BUT IT LOOOKS FINE NOW RIGHT!? She's out to dinner with her boyfriend now.... Im so carpin mad right now. Im afraid Im gonna lose Bre's friendship and trust cos the last 3 times I told her I'd go as in promising but I couldnt.! And this is like the 4th time! SOOOOOOOOOOO MAAAADDD now.


EDIT: Now I know how Goku feels when Frieza killed Krillian ._.

It's highly unlikely that she won't understand if you tell her your mother forced your hand.

Making anime references really takes any serious edge off of what you're trying to say, however. Especially such... unrelated ones.
Just trying to show you how I feel about this girl T________T she send me a text with a sad face like this :-( I feel really carping horrible now. Might as well go outside and listen to Senior Skip Day by mac Miller (- _-) .....
(Sep. 23, 2011  11:14 PM)Hazel Wrote:
(Sep. 23, 2011  11:01 PM)® Wrote: IM SO MAD AT MY MOM RIGHT NOW! SHe now says I cant go to the football game tonight! I just wanted to see Breanna cheerleading! And she's telling me to make up a lie to her. Im like wdf? Why would I want to lie to the girl I most love in the whole wide world! I cant go because of the weather! BUT IT LOOOKS FINE NOW RIGHT!? She's out to dinner with her boyfriend now.... Im so carpin mad right now. Im afraid Im gonna lose Bre's friendship and trust cos the last 3 times I told her I'd go as in promising but I couldnt.! And this is like the 4th time! SOOOOOOOOOOO MAAAADDD now.


EDIT: Now I know how Goku feels when Frieza killed Krillian ._.

It's highly unlikely that she won't understand if you tell her your mother forced your hand.

Making anime references really takes any serious edge off of what you're trying to say, however. Especially such... unrelated ones.

straight up, try lovely complex i could think of a million reerences for that one Wink
Maybe you're overreacting. I doubt that she'd misunderstand that your parents said no. Also, your mom needs a break SOMETIMES (Assuming you meant her when you said "Out with her boyfriend"), so it shouldn't be blown out of proportions. Also, if you don't want to lie then tell the truth. Yeah, it must suck, though. I'll say that.
I do not date I simply have my opinion on these things
(Sep. 23, 2011  11:01 PM)® Wrote: IM SO MAD AT MY MOM RIGHT NOW! SHe now says I cant go to the football game tonight! I just wanted to see Breanna cheerleading! And she's telling me to make up a lie to her. Im like wdf? Why would I want to lie to the girl I most love in the whole wide world! I cant go because of the weather! BUT IT LOOOKS FINE NOW RIGHT!? She's out to dinner with her boyfriend now.... Im so carpin mad right now. Im afraid Im gonna lose Bre's friendship and trust cos the last 3 times I told her I'd go as in promising but I couldnt.! And this is like the 4th time! SOOOOOOOOOOO MAAAADDD now.


EDIT: Now I know how Goku feels when Frieza killed Krillian ._.

I see nobody read my post on trying not to gossip ... This is for boyfriends and girlfriends. If she has a boyfriend, she is not your girlfriend.

Actually, I think this could be a good start to straighten up this thread more : post if you have a girl- or boyfriend, not if you are trying to get one or whatever. Surely this could bring a better quality of posts, no matter what the opening post says because the conjunctures are quite different between then and now.
Well, it is related about love no? I go to this thread for answers. It has some pretty experienced lovers and advice. But I get what you're saying and I respect that. :<
(Sep. 23, 2011  11:18 PM)® Wrote: Just trying to show you how I feel about this girl T________T she send me a text with a sad face like this :-( I feel really carping horrible now. Might as well go outside and listen to Senior Skip Day by mac Miller (- _-) .....

Man up. Honestly, that's such an inconsequential thing. Colon Hyphen Open brackets! My world hath ended! It's not a big deal, and you're being incredibly emotional.
(Sep. 23, 2011  9:10 PM)Sniperâ„¢ Wrote:
(Sep. 23, 2011  8:47 PM)Deikailo Wrote: If you knew even an iota about love, you would know that attraction to someone makes people very, very immature and irrational at times due to released chemicals in the brain called idk what because I'm not a doctor.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hormone !Joyful_3!
EDIT:I wasn't in any way trying to be sarcastic or rude. Information is key.

I think the hormone you may be thinking of is oxytocin. However, oxytocin as the "love hormone" is a misnomer. The initial stages of lustful attraction are triggered by a mixture of adrenaline, testosterone and estrogen, and the real good lovey dovey feelings come from a healthy helping of dopamine and serotonin - the same chemical receptors activated by narcotics drugs (and chocolate!)
(Sep. 24, 2011  5:11 AM)Arupaeo Wrote:
(Sep. 23, 2011  9:10 PM)Sniperâ„¢ Wrote:
(Sep. 23, 2011  8:47 PM)Deikailo Wrote: If you knew even an iota about love, you would know that attraction to someone makes people very, very immature and irrational at times due to released chemicals in the brain called idk what because I'm not a doctor.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hormone !Joyful_3!
EDIT:I wasn't in any way trying to be sarcastic or rude. Information is key.

I think the hormone you may be thinking of is oxytocin. However, oxytocin as the "love hormone" is a misnomer. The initial stages of lustful attraction are triggered by a mixture of adrenaline, testosterone and estrogen, and the real good lovey dovey feelings come from a healthy helping of dopamine and serotonin - the same chemical receptors activated by narcotics drugs (and chocolate!)

And after prolonged exposure to the specific mixture of chemicals, your brain gets a bit bored with it and decides it's time to watch television.

That's when the effort of maintaining the relationship is fully on you, and that's typically when most relationships fail. Without being lovedrunk, most teenagers just cannot manage a meaningful relationship. It's a sorry fact, but the experience does help later.

Also, as for chocolate, if you're looking for a little happiness in food, extremely dark chocolate(70%+) of high quality is what you want to shoot for, in case anyone was wondering.
(Sep. 23, 2011  8:14 PM)Hazel Wrote:
(Sep. 23, 2011  7:44 PM)Nwolf Wrote: yeah, but tbh most of the people where I live are way more mature than normal 12 year olds, my moms friends and that say i should be a politician when i'm older. and I know that liking someone is just where you think someones attractive, but love is different.

No, you really don't know the difference. Very, very few people in this thread do - and that's normal. There is nothing in the water in your area that makes people grow more intelligent or more emotionally mature faster. You could be the most emotionally advanced twelve year old alive and still not fathom the actual concept of a real relationship, or its consequences on your life, the life of your partner, and your emotional status.

You're not some love savant, you're just level-headed enough not to get too invested yet. You will, someday, look back on every relationship you had in these formative years and consider them in a much different light.

Don't get ahead of yourself. Letting yourself keep thinking you're "more mature than normal 12 year olds" is a cocky way to get the reality train slammed into your forehead.

...and, I'm really not sure what your mom's friends saying you should be a politician is supposed to contribute to your statement. That's like saying "BUT MY MOM SAYS I'M HANDSOME" when someone calls you unattractive.

i'm not trying to say 'i'm amazing take that!' I mean that I know that you shouldn't think that every relationship you're in is love, it's clearly not. and i'm not saying I think i'm more mature than other 12 year olds, but like my cousins and that are always saying i'm less interesting, because I don't get hyper and that. I'd much rather read a book than jump about and run around. I never said I knew what true love was, you misunderstood my post. and the politician bit was just me adding to the fact i'm apparently more mature.
(Sep. 24, 2011  1:42 PM)Nwolf Wrote: and i'm not saying I think i'm more mature than other 12 year olds

(Sep. 24, 2011  1:42 PM)Nwolf Wrote: and the politician bit was just me adding to the fact i'm apparently more mature.

You should probably pay more attention to what you type.

Regardless, this bit is off-topic by this point, so there's really no point in continuing it.
Even though this thread is in the OFF-TOPIC forum,is it even SUPPOSED to be in this site???I mean gfs and bfs are in NO WAY RELATED TO BEYBLADE!!!(Unless Someone fell in love with one and started calling it gf/bf)This is the weirdest thread I've read in the WBO!!!
(Sep. 24, 2011  2:18 PM)stormpegasus121 Wrote: Even though this thread is in the OFF-TOPIC forum,is it even SUPPOSED to be in this site???I mean gfs and bfs are in NO WAY RELATED TO BEYBLADE!!!(Unless Someone fell in love with one and started calling it gf/bf)This is the weirdest thread I've read in the WBO!!!

Sharing your personal life, or at least some details of it, with your community is what helps make it stronger as a whole. It gives us something more to talk about - and inexperienced users can come to people who do have experience, for advice, criticism, or just a nice conversation about whatever romantic is going on in their lives.

I am largely opposed to this thread in its current form myself, but the idea is still a theoretically sound one.
This is an Off-Topic thread,thats why its in th Off-Topic forum.
Hi i need advice, i hav a crush on this one girl so i asked my friend if he could see if she would go on a date if i asked and she said maybe. But she already knew i liked her so wat should i do now?
(Sep. 24, 2011  11:00 PM)Kadosama Wrote: Hi i need advice, i hav a crush on this one girl so i asked my friend if he could see if she would go on a date if i asked and she said maybe. But she already knew i liked her so wat should i do now?

You wait for her response en proper, without nagging her about it. If she says yes, you take her out for a respectful dinner, a nice movie perhaps, etc. and don't try anything funny the entire evening. Don't be too serious about it, but still treat her very respectfully.
Hey Kadosama thats a pretty big problem, but try being simple when you dont hav tons of options.
Erm, well, you always have OPTIONS, it's just a matter of how smart they are. I say go with Hazel's advice.
(Sep. 23, 2011  3:44 AM)Sparta Wrote: I'm so upset. Lauren...has cancer. She hasn't told me muh about it other than that, but it's reay sad...

Dude, im so sorry. i know how it feels, 2 peeps in my family hav had cancer. I may not know who she is, or u for a matter of fact, but a friend of a blader, gets my wishes for the best.
(Sep. 24, 2011  2:05 PM)Hazel Wrote:
(Sep. 24, 2011  1:42 PM)Nwolf Wrote: and i'm not saying I think i'm more mature than other 12 year olds

(Sep. 24, 2011  1:42 PM)Nwolf Wrote: and the politician bit was just me adding to the fact i'm apparently more mature.

You should probably pay more attention to what you type.

Regardless, this bit is off-topic by this point, so there's really no point in continuing it.

sounds good, just wanted to clear that up, I just want to help out on here.
(Sep. 24, 2011  5:11 AM)Arupaeo Wrote: I think the hormone you may be thinking of is oxytocin. However, oxytocin as the "love hormone" is a misnomer. The initial stages of lustful attraction are triggered by a mixture of adrenaline, testosterone and estrogen, and the real good lovey dovey feelings come from a healthy helping of dopamine and serotonin - the same chemical receptors activated by narcotics drugs (and chocolate!)
Dopamine was what I was thinking of, but since it's not my field of expertise, I didn't plan on saying any false information is I was wrong.
It sounds like you had a lot of fun Deikailo Grin

Right now my boyfriend, John, and I are doing amazing. It's been almost 3 months now and we still have a really good and balanced relationship. Sure we've gotten into a few fights, but what relationship doesn't? I just wish we had more classes together than Biology haha
Well, I have a new girlfriend. Joyful_2 I've actually known her for like 2 years now, and I just decided upon myself yesterday to ask her out. So, I did. She said yes.

I seem to be turning into quite the ladies man lately. XP
same here, Bey-heart, for some reason today I got way more popular, probably cause I did something I wasn't meant to do, and apparently girls like bad boys... all I did was our bus wasn't there, and we were all meant to go to the hall, to wait, but me and some friends and some girls snuck out and went to the toilets and wandered around school, and then when pastoral chased after us I walked past them and they didn't say anything, lol. its all on facebook. but I don't really care about other girls liking me, i've got my GF kayleigh, and shes the only one for me.