Boy/girl friend Thread

(Sep. 05, 2011  5:47 AM)Deikailo Wrote:
(Sep. 05, 2011  5:44 AM)V0rtex Wrote:
(Sep. 04, 2011  8:46 PM)Dan Wrote: You kiss too early, the bus blows up. You kiss to late, the bus blows up.
If you don't do it immediately when you are 17, the bus blows up.


or, you can jump out of the bus and miraculously survive like most people in action movies do
More specifically, Keanu Reeves and Sandra Bullock on a runaway.

haha XD

exactly!
today is a sad day my girl friend moved away
(Sep. 05, 2011  6:45 AM)xshaman-kingx Wrote: today is a sad day my girl friend moved away

that sucks but it happens
yeah it sucks =( but i will survive
(Sep. 04, 2011  8:46 PM)Dan Wrote:
(Sep. 04, 2011  8:21 PM)KidTala Wrote: For me, I've already had my first kiss XD. It can't be bad if you 13-16 and still haven't had your first kiss yet, but in my opinion you have to before 17 years old.

You kiss too early, the bus blows up. You kiss to late, the bus blows up.
If you don't do it immediately when you are 17, the bus blows up.

wow lol mine was when i was 4 but i dos not count me her just wanted to try it plus it is to young to count anyway
(Sep. 05, 2011  7:03 AM)tanzam2 Wrote:
(Sep. 04, 2011  8:46 PM)Dan Wrote:
(Sep. 04, 2011  8:21 PM)KidTala Wrote: For me, I've already had my first kiss XD. It can't be bad if you 13-16 and still haven't had your first kiss yet, but in my opinion you have to before 17 years old.

You kiss too early, the bus blows up. You kiss to late, the bus blows up.
If you don't do it immediately when you are 17, the bus blows up.

wow lol mine was when i was 4 but i dos not count me her just wanted to try it plus it is to young to count anyway


well, looks like a bus blew up somewhere then
Poor bus...

I'm a freshman, and I think high school's enough time to start thinking about relationships. But, it's not like you date to date, nor are you trying to find the perfect one. You guys missed the third answer: dating to learn. To learn about other people, what works in a relationship, what doesn't. How to treat a girl/boy, how to not. When you date, you begin to understand these things so you'll be ready when you try to find that someone.
This. (Well, I'm a terribly nerdy person, so maybe this isn't the best approach for me, hah. If anything, I've learned that I need a job. While nobody I know has heard any complaints, and my girlfriend's sister keeps saying how she is enjoying herself, being broke on a "date" SUCKS. It makes me feel like I'm the lowest, cheapest guy in the world. Especially down on the lakefront, where all of the couples are buying stuff for each other, usually the guy buying stuff for the girl, and I have lint in my pockets if I'm lucky.)
(Sep. 05, 2011  2:14 PM)Sparta Wrote: Poor bus...

yeah. i should make a PSA telling everyone that every year hundreds of thousands of busses blow up each year due to early or late kissing
OK, so the girl that's been chasing me is asking what would happen if I asked her out. These are my options:

I tell her to just give up and (Click to View)
My parents wouldn't really be all that happy about me dating her again, so if I did I'd probably have to keep her my (Click to View)
Sorry about the video SPAM, we both like AAR and she actually asked me to reply with one of those songs.
I think you should stop being concerned so much with what others think and focus on what satisfies you. Not once did you mention in that post how you feel about going out with her.
lol nice one sparta, so by chase do you mean you would want to ask her out again or not? i get confused in this stuff easily...
(Sep. 06, 2011  7:54 PM)Deikailo Wrote: I think you should stop being concerned so much with what others think and focus on what satisfies you. Not once did you mention in that post how you feel about going out with her.
Wow, that's a really good point. How do I feel, duh! I feel like I would say yes, but my tummy isn't entirely settled.
(Sep. 06, 2011  7:56 PM)Nwolf Wrote: lol nice one sparta, so by chase do you mean you would want to ask her out again or not? i get confused in this stuff easily...

I meant that she has asked me out multiple times last summer because she wanted to make up again, and I said no.

I got it, thanks guys! I'll say no, because otherwise it teaches her that she can just toy with me and break up/ask me out at will.
this'll sound sexist, but you kinda have to be stronger mentally than girls, or else they will break up with you and toy with you, if you are stronger than they won't bother with you if they don't like you...
(Sep. 06, 2011  8:08 PM)Nwolf Wrote: this'll sound sexist, but you kinda have to be stronger mentally than girls, or else they will break up with you and toy with you, if you are stronger than they won't bother with you if they don't like you...

...What?
I think he means that you have to show more maturity than the average stereotype of the male. We're normally perceived to be superficial idiots, and as a result, you have to work harder to earn the respect of someone and avoid the situation Nwolf just described. Maybe not "mentally stronger", but more dedicated to the relationship?
(Sep. 05, 2011  3:30 PM)Temporal Wrote: This. (Well, I'm a terribly nerdy person, so maybe this isn't the best approach for me, hah. If anything, I've learned that I need a job. While nobody I know has heard any complaints, and my girlfriend's sister keeps saying how she is enjoying herself, being broke on a "date" SUCKS. It makes me feel like I'm the lowest, cheapest guy in the world. Especially down on the lakefront, where all of the couples are buying stuff for each other, usually the guy buying stuff for the girl, and I have lint in my pockets if I'm lucky.)
I found it funny that this whole post had parentheses Speechless

Quote:I think he means that you have to show more maturity than the average stereotype of the male. We're normally perceived to be superficial idiots, and as a result, you have to work harder to earn the respect of someone and avoid the situation Nwolf just described. Maybe not "mentally stronger", but more dedicated to the relationship?
It troubles me by how some girls immediately think there better then boy's
Hm lets go back in time.Look at Albert Einstein Speechless shows that men aren't brainless morons SpeechlessEven though some girls my age dress like _____
Ha umm is this becoming random or what cause dit for boy/girl friend stuff
oh and my first girl friend was kinda creepy.
(Sep. 06, 2011  7:51 PM)Sparta Wrote: OK, so the girl that's been chasing me is asking what would happen if I asked her out. These are my options:

I tell her to just give up and (Click to View)
My parents wouldn't really be all that happy about me dating her again, so if I did I'd probably have to keep her my (Click to View)
Sorry about the video SPAM, we both like AAR and she actually asked me to reply with one of those songs.

I saw the second one a mile away...


New school year, new school, new start Smile
(Sep. 06, 2011  11:57 PM)ClassicKing Wrote: my first girl friend was kinda creepy.

Join the club, brotha. Join the club...

So today, something odd happened. Some random person texted me, thinking I was "Lexi" or someone. I told her she had the wrong number, but we've been texting all day. I know I should be careful of "Pedophiles" or whatnot, but she seems nice and lives pretty near where I live (She said her town first, so no worries there). We seem to have a lot in common, but it's a little weird Uncertain.
I love new school years at new schools it gives us a new and fresh start
I agree!
(Sep. 07, 2011  12:33 AM)Sparta Wrote:
(Sep. 06, 2011  11:57 PM)ClassicKing Wrote: my first girl friend was kinda creepy.

Join the club, brotha. Join the club...

So today, something odd happened. Some random person texted me, thinking I was "Lexi" or someone. I told her she had the wrong number, but we've been texting all day. I know I should be careful of "Pedophiles" or whatnot, but she seems nice and lives pretty near where I live (She said her town first, so no worries there). We seem to have a lot in common, but it's a little weird Uncertain.

You should have pretended to be Lexi and scheduled a "girls only" sleepover.
Eek! That would be so creepy...

But, let's be clear, that really wouldn't be such a bad thing Cool

She responded once to me after diving and stopped replying after that. Maybe her phone died...?

Eh, it doesn't matter. My guess is that we'll talk again tomorrow, and maybe someday we can be good friends.

^I know it's not BF/GF, but it's closely tied, so...
(Sep. 06, 2011  11:23 PM)Temporal Wrote: I think he means that you have to show more maturity than the average stereotype of the male. We're normally perceived to be superficial idiots, and as a result, you have to work harder to earn the respect of someone and avoid the situation Nwolf just described. Maybe not "mentally stronger", but more dedicated to the relationship?

Maturity's good to an extent, but I have to disagree with the rest. Men are seen as men, women are seen as women. You'll only be perceived as a superficial idiot if you act like a superficial idiot.

As for the extra dedication, that's not necessarily "good". It's all about moderation; caring too much is almost always taken as being clingy and caring too little is taken as exactly that.
(Sep. 06, 2011  7:51 PM)Sparta Wrote: OK, so the girl that's been chasing me is asking what would happen if I asked her out. These are my options:

I tell her to just give up and (Click to View)
My parents wouldn't really be all that happy about me dating her again, so if I did I'd probably have to keep her my (Click to View)
Sorry about the video SPAM, we both like AAR and she actually asked me to reply with one of those songs.

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