(May. 06, 2009 4:27 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]How so?
where to start?
a) you're picking a child's game over love
b) why the hell would you need to give it up in the first place?
maybe you should just stop posting in this thread.
if anyone makes you give up something that makes you happy and doesn't affect your relationship negatively then it's not love anyway
i think she is using it as an excuse
(May. 06, 2009 4:30 AM)Bey Brad Wrote: [ -> ]i think what she said is idiotic but not for this reason
my thought was more along the lines of "why would you have to sacrifice your hobby for love"
also "is my relationship a lie?"
Yeah this.
It's not about choosing love over hobbies. It's just about not understanding how relationships work.
(May. 06, 2009 4:29 AM)Roan Wrote: [ -> ]Anyone who choses a game over real love is clearly retarded
Or I'd rather sort my life out first before worrying about someone elses.
Love isn't what I really want. I don't think I could love one person and prioritize them over everyone else.
(May. 06, 2009 4:35 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]Or I'd rather sort my life out first before worrying about someone elses.
Love isn't what I really want. I don't think I could love one person and prioritize them over everyone else.
then maybe you should get on out of this thread
(May. 06, 2009 4:35 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]Or I'd rather sort my life out first before worrying about someone elses.
Love isn't what I really want. I don't think I could love one person and prioritize them over everyone else.
Yeah then you really shouldn't be giving advice in here. lol
And being in love isn't about putting someone above everything else, that's actually really unhealthy. Relationships are a lot more give and take than you seem to think they are.
Yeah, I've already understood why my advice wouldn't work for this situation. I didn't quite hit me at first why you guys thought my advice was bad.
My understanding of relationships isn't really all that terrible. It's mostly the acceptance of my being close to someone is more of a problem.
But yeah, I really don't want any extra conflict nor do I want to bring in unnecessary personal details so I'm going to leave with that being said.
(May. 06, 2009 4:51 AM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]My understanding of relationships isn't really all that terrible. It's mostly the acceptance of my being close to someone is more of a problem.
(May. 06, 2009 12:37 AM)AnnieDuck Wrote: [ -> ]If you wait too long, there's a good chance it won't happen. From my (admittedly limited) understanding and experience, taking initiative is really important.
this this thisssss
I learned this the hard way very recently. If you don't take initiative then you will never find the person you're looking for, and they will never find you.
Most of the girls I know, or see who are seniors are taller then myself, thus I'm only a tad intimidated. Just a tad.
(May. 06, 2009 3:44 AM)Synesthesia Wrote: [ -> ]If you have to ask whether or not you should try to take your friendship to the next level with an older and possibly more intelligent woman on a gaming forum targeted at a young audience, then you are screwed.
I was going to say this. But I was afraid of getting backlash because I had planned to comparing it to asking for Medical Advice on Yahoo! Answers (yes the same "I hear there is a war in Georgia happening, but I see no tanks" "You live in the state called Georgia, not the country" Yahoo! Answers).
i think i can lock this now