ok reading through this thread more carefully makes me think you should make sure you know you want to risk telling her. you say you are are very good friends--what does that mean? if you're as close as you say you are, chances are she'll only see you in that platonic light. while i don't think the friendship would be fractured per se, the relationship would undoubtedly change.
but who knows. she may feel the same way. it's a risk vs. reward sort of thing, i guess. if it doesn't work out i would caution against falling for your older, close friends in the future.
Good Luck
(May. 05, 2009 9:32 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]I'm going to tell her how I really feel about her tomorrow and I'll give you an update about how it went.
Well, good luck on that and i hope it does works out ok and at the very least your friendship is not affected by this.
Quote:if it doesn't work out i would caution against falling for your older, close friends in the future.
I assume you mean telling them, because you can't really get a choice about liking someone in this way or not.
In my opinion it will just scare the person off, and if you're good friends that's really bad. Hey, I have no idea what your situation is like nearly as well as you do though so it's your call.
I also think giving someone a note is a really cowardly way to go about it
unless you manage to do it in a very intelligent way.
I don't know what to do but I really like though and another problem. I want to give her a kiss on the cheek!!
(May. 05, 2009 10:05 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]I don't know what to do but I really like though and another problem. I want to give her a kiss on the cheek!!
Hm, I'm not so sure on that one unless it ends up being something positive.
Someone please give me adivce on my second delema.
That's not really much of a dilemma. You'll know at the time whether it is appropriate or not.......
To me it is because I've never kissed someone I've loved before (in other words, no first kiss).
(May. 05, 2009 10:17 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]To me it is because I've never kissed someone I've loved before (in other words, no first kiss).
I'm the same and I am 19 which I feel like that is not good at all.
Also, as I have not said yet, no, i never had a crush on a senior.
Haha, a few guys have already approached me to tell me they like me this year. I'll probably end up dragging one of them to prom for he hell of it.
I wouldn't say it in words. As much as we (girls) like to know guys like us, we don't always feel the same way. Go ask her to a movie. Be like "Hey, _____ just came out. My buddies are a little to wild for the theater so I don't wanna bring them. Wanna chill instead?"
Her response:
"I can't, I'm busy"
Your response:
"I have a couple nights off. Got any that would we good for you? Hey, it's a free movie"
Her response:
"I didn't really wanna see it"
Your response:
"Why not? It's supposed to be good! Besides, If you get bored you could always practice your aim at throwing popcorn in the persn three seats ahead"
Her response:
"I don't like the movies"
Your response:
"Really? I thought everyone liked the movies? What's too hate?" <-- conversation starter!
Keep everything casual, lots of freely jokes, don't try to show off or make yourself look amazing. Keep talking about her and pay for everything. That'll make up for the age factor. Girls like being treated (except for me, I always feel guilty)
Biggest cmplaint about guys: they are waaay too pushy. Don't force anything or ask about things in frequency. For example, dating. Don't exactly hit on her on the first date. Just show her you can roll with it. The one thing I'd say, is stare in her eyes a bit longer than you normally would. Not too long, then it's creepy. If she looks away right away, then she's probably uncomfortable. Take it down a knotch. If she keeps looking, smile. SMILE.
Haha, I'm in fits over here. XD That's pretty much spot on though. ^^;
Thanks but I need help on the kiss thing because I've (said this before) have nver had a first kiss.
(May. 05, 2009 10:28 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]Thanks but I need help on the kiss thing because I've (said this before) have nver had a first kiss.
perhaps you should focus on the whole telling her how you feel thing before you think about kissing her. and jeez dude, it's kissing. not that big of a deal.
(May. 05, 2009 10:28 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]Thanks but I need help on the kiss thing because I've (said this before) have nver had a first kiss.
If you're going to make getting a kiss a high priority then you're not worth her time.
(May. 05, 2009 10:35 PM)Deikailo Wrote: [ -> ]If you're going to make getting a kiss a high priority then you're not worth her time.
It's part two smart one!
(May. 05, 2009 10:39 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]It's part two smart one!
The part where this board shouldn't need to be involved...
Amirite? >.>
*sigh* If you really like her then you need to control your hormones. She'll just think you're shallow if you push a kiss on her so soon......
Tip #1: If she says maybe, it's likely she means no.
Tip #2: Do not make a big deal about it if she says maybe/no.
Tip #3: Be happy that you're on the date if you get it, don't keep pushing for the next part. ._.
By the way, I prefer coffee or going to the park instead of movies. You get to know each other better.
(May. 05, 2009 10:39 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]It's part two smart one!
Broken down, your plan looks like this:
Part one: ask her out
Part two: get some action
yeah, if that's your plan, don't even bother. Try not to insult the senior girl that's been getting asked out by sophomores/freshman. That's like shooting yourself in the foot.
(May. 05, 2009 8:33 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]I have a crush on a seinor at my school and she's leaving on the 28th of this month and I need help from people who've had a crush on a seinor at your school before (high school only).
Have you guys like ever communicated at all? It'd help if you were actually friends too.
Okay I really don't know why I put it's part two. I asked her out twice so u not happening I just need to tell her how I feel.
I had a crush on my English teacher in grade 9. She was also my English teacher in Grade 10. Looking back now, that's only kind of creepy (she's like 28). That's all I got for having an interest in some one older then me.
(May. 05, 2009 10:59 PM)Storm Pegasis Wrote: [ -> ]I asked her out twice so u not happening I just need to tell her how I feel.
If I'm reading this right you need to back off and take a hint.