Gotruto Wrote:Artie Wrote:do you not understand the stigma and malice that word has?
this is the same argument for 'white pride' or 'straight parades'. the majority is bitching, but the fact is they havent been oppressed and called inferior for all of their lives
Im sorry but i just dont see it.its not like current people actually have been oppressed, i just dont get how they feel, i dont get it at all, u cant geneticly transfer pain or anything...
OH MY GOD ARE YOU SERIOUS
oppression of minorities, INCLUDING BLACKS, is still a VERY REAL ISSUE
anyway, this is scarily accurate
Quote:Your Existing Situation
Orderly, methodical, and self-contained. Needs the respect, recognition, and understanding of those close to him.
Your Stress Sources
The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as he has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to his self-sufficiency because of the restraint he normally imposes on himself. Since he wants to demonstrate the unique quality of his own character, he tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal his fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize his behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference he really longs for the approval and esteem of others.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow himself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction from sexual activity.
Your Desired Objective
Has an imperative need for some bond or fusion with another which will prove sensually fulfilling, but which will not conflict with his convictions or sense of fitness.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and he is distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship. He attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as he desires them to be.
Your Actual Problem #2
Greatly impressed by the unique, by originality, and by individuals of outstanding characteristics. Tries to emulate the characteristics he admires and to display originality in his own personality.
This. Thread. Is. Lame. Now.
Takao Wrote:This. Thread. Is. Lame. Now.
you're lame
seriously just shut the carp up for once
Wee, personality quiz results time (Feel free to call me an arrogant, attention craving carp after reading these. That's pretty much the conclusion that I came to.)
Quote:Your Stress Sources:
Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
Your Restrained Characteristics:
Feels listless, hemmed in, and anxious; considers that circumstances and forcing him to restrain his desires. Wants to avoid open conflict with others and to have peace and quiet. Feels that things stand in his way, that circumstances are forcing him to compromise and forgo some pleasures for the time being.
Your Desired Objective:
Wants to make a favorable impression and be regarded as a special personality. Is therefore constantly on the watch to see whether on the watch to see whether he is succeeding in this and how others are reacting to him; this makes him feel he is in control. Uses tactics cleverly in order to obtain influence and special recognition. Susceptible to the esthetic or original.
Your Actual Problem:
Needs to be valued and respected as an exceptional individual, in order to increase his self-esteem and his feeling of personal worth. Resists mediocrity and sets himself high standards.
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Takao Wrote:...
p. sure he meant STOP carp POSTING
Artie Wrote:anyway, this is scarily accurate
Tim from Georgia found it "so accurate, it's scary".
Doing the quiz now.
hey sam i bet he calls aboriginal girls squaws
IT'S NOT LIKE THEY'RE SUFFERING
Takao Wrote:...
sorry man, not trying to be a jerk or anything but you just keep posting things that you either a) don't know about or b) have no real purpose other than being a carp
AnnieDuck Wrote:Takao Wrote:...
p. sure he meant STOP carp POSTING
I get it, you people don't really like me, to be expected, I'm an carp to deal with. What I didn't expect was to be snapped at for stating this thread became stale because of the rather serious tone it took. I guess that post could be interperated as me saying "Why'd you ban that person?". Well,that was not what I meant. I warned him in another thread that if he was going to keep up the way he was going, that he would end up canned. I was right.
I'll be going now.
you could just stop trying to be so funny
youll pick up on what we like in time
Takao Wrote:AnnieDuck Wrote:Takao Wrote:...
p. sure he meant STOP carp POSTING
I get it, you people don't really like me, to be expected, I'm an carp to deal with. What I didn't expect was to be snapped at for stating this thread became stale because of the rather serious tone it took. I guess that post could be interperated as me saying "Why'd you ban that person?". Well,that was not what I meant. I warned him in another thread that if he was going to keep up the way he was going, that he would end up canned. I was right.
I'll be going now.
WE CAN'T BE FUNNY ALL THE TIME
we do not exist to entertain you
if you do not entertain us, you will face repercussions
Sam Wrote:Gotruto Wrote:Artie Wrote:do you not understand the stigma and malice that word has?
this is the same argument for 'white pride' or 'straight parades'. the majority is bitching, but the fact is they havent been oppressed and called inferior for all of their lives
Im sorry but i just dont see it.its not like current people actually have been oppressed, i just dont get how they feel, i dont get it at all, u cant geneticly transfer pain or anything...
woahhhhhhh
Ok Gotruto... While I realize you are banned and probably won't be able to read this until you come back (if you ever come back), I'm going to go ahead and get it out there anyway.
If you think there is no oppression in the world today you are so obviously mistaken that I even feel bad for laughing at you for it. I'm gay. Most people around these parts know that, but I'm assuming you don't.
As a gay person living in America, I face stupid carp like this pretty much on a daily basis. Its gotten to the point now where most of the time it doesn't even bother me because I have adjusted to the fact that 70% or more of the American population doesn't like me simply because of what I am. Does that make it anymore ok for them to rampantly spout out the words "gay" or "carp" in a derogatory fashion? No, of course it doesn't.
While the intensity of racism and most other forms of discrimination in the US is definitely declining, there is no arguing that it still doesn't exist. You obviously don't know what its like to be a part of a minority and/or to be hated or discriminated against. I understand that you are only 13 or whatever, but age can't excuse this sort of thing. I am willing to bet that your parents are bigots. Where else would you have learned this sort of behavior at such a young age?
To be honest, I find what you just said disgusting and appalling and I can't believe that you think its ok to do this sort of thing. Never,
never is it ok to use derogatory words like "carp", "carp", "spick" or "carp" when referring to a person. Am I guilty of this? Of course I am, I'd be a hypocrite if I said I weren't. We use the word carp pretty frequently around here. But like I said, that's what is disturbing about our culture and society these days: No one seems to care what these words mean, they think they can take any hurtful word and bend it to make it mean something else all the while assuming said word has lost its hateful roots.
Guess what? It hasn't.
Woah, pretty close
Quote:Your Existing Situation
Needs, and insists on having, a close and understanding relationship, or at least some method of satisfying a compulsion to feel identified.
Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Exacting in his emotional demands and very particular in his choice of partner. The desire for emotional independence prevents any depth of involvement. The situation is preventing him from establishing himself, but he feels he must make the best of things as they are.
Your Desired Objective
Has exaggerated demands on life which are concealed behind specious rationalization and cautious behavior. Wishes to impress others with his achievements, but camouflages this desire and is inclined to be covert.
Your Actual Problem
The unsatisfied desire to be respected, to stand out from amongst his friends, is causing some anxiety. As a result, normal gregariousness is suppressed and he refuses to allow himself to become involved, or to participate with others in their ordinary activities
I had to remove boldface from the punctuation and some prepositions just to assure myself the computer didn't make me
Takao Wrote:AnnieDuck Wrote:Takao Wrote:...
p. sure he meant STOP carp POSTING
I get it, you people don't really like me, to be expected, I'm an carp to deal with. What I didn't expect was to be snapped at for stating this thread became stale because of the rather serious tone it took. I guess that post could be interperated as me saying "Why'd you ban that person?". Well,that was not what I meant. I warned him in another thread that if he was going to keep up the way he was going, that he would end up canned. I was right.
I'll be going now.
this is not a comedy thread
I can't believe you only gave him 3 days.
I feel like I should say something, but it would just be me tiring myself all to beat a dead horse.
Jesus carp I seriously developed a headache from reading the past few pages.
This is what happens when I'm absent for like, seven hours.
Ominous Wrote:This is what happens when I'm absent for like, seven hours.
No, this is what happens when 13 year old kids have access to the internet.
Quote:Your Existing Situation
Working to improve her image in the eyes of others so as to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes.
Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads her to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Circumstances are such that she feels forced to compromise for the time being if she is to avoid being cut off from affection or from full participation.
Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction from sexual activity.
Your Desired Objective
Longs for tenderness and for a sensitivity of feeling into which she can blend. Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of her hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. She is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting her from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.
i don't really know what to say
some of it is dead on, but the rest is completely wtf
just bolded the bits that are accurate, a lot of this ties in really well with my family problems
actually most of it is pretty carp dead on, first read through i was only taking my relationship with brad into consideration- bring everything else into it, and goddamn