Gotruto Wrote:

Artie Wrote:do you not understand the stigma and malice that word has?

this is the same argument for 'white pride' or 'straight parades'. the majority is bitching, but the fact is they havent been oppressed and called inferior for all of their lives

Im sorry but i just dont see it.its not like current people actually have been oppressed, i just dont get how they feel, i dont get it at all, u cant geneticly transfer pain or anything...

Gotruto Wrote:

Artie Wrote:do you not understand the stigma and malice that word has?

this is the same argument for 'white pride' or 'straight parades'. the majority is bitching, but the fact is they havent been oppressed and called inferior for all of their lives

Im sorry but i just dont see it.its not like current people actually have been oppressed, i just dont get how they feel, i dont get it at all, u cant geneticly transfer pain or anything...

Quote:Your Existing Situation
Orderly, methodical, and self-contained. Needs the respect, recognition, and understanding of those close to him.

Your Stress Sources
The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as he has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to his self-sufficiency because of the restraint he normally imposes on himself. Since he wants to demonstrate the unique quality of his own character, he tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal his fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize his behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference he really longs for the approval and esteem of others.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow himself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.

Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction from sexual activity.

Your Desired Objective
Has an imperative need for some bond or fusion with another which will prove sensually fulfilling, but which will not conflict with his convictions or sense of fitness.

Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and he is distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship. He attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as he desires them to be.

Your Actual Problem #2
Greatly impressed by the unique, by originality, and by individuals of outstanding characteristics. Tries to emulate the characteristics he admires and to display originality in his own personality.

Takao Wrote:This. Thread. Is. Lame. Now.

Quote:Your Stress Sources:

Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.

Your Restrained Characteristics:

Feels listless, hemmed in, and anxious; considers that circumstances and forcing him to restrain his desires. Wants to avoid open conflict with others and to have peace and quiet. Feels that things stand in his way, that circumstances are forcing him to compromise and forgo some pleasures for the time being.

Your Desired Objective:

Wants to make a favorable impression and be regarded as a special personality. Is therefore constantly on the watch to see whether on the watch to see whether he is succeeding in this and how others are reacting to him; this makes him feel he is in control. Uses tactics cleverly in order to obtain influence and special recognition. Susceptible to the esthetic or original.

Your Actual Problem:

Needs to be valued and respected as an exceptional individual, in order to increase his self-esteem and his feeling of personal worth. Resists mediocrity and sets himself high standards.

Takao Wrote:...

Gotruto Wrote:

Artie Wrote:do you not understand the stigma and malice that word has?

this is the same argument for 'white pride' or 'straight parades'. the majority is bitching, but the fact is they havent been oppressed and called inferior for all of their lives

Im sorry but i just dont see it.its not like current people actually have been oppressed, i just dont get how they feel, i dont get it at all, u cant geneticly transfer pain or anything...

Artie Wrote:anyway, this is scarily accurate

Takao Wrote:...

AnnieDuck Wrote:

Takao Wrote:...

p. sure he meant STOP carp POSTING

Takao Wrote:

AnnieDuck Wrote:

Takao Wrote:...

p. sure he meant STOP carp POSTING

I get it, you people don't really like me, to be expected, I'm an carp to deal with. What I didn't expect was to be snapped at for stating this thread became stale because of the rather serious tone it took. I guess that post could be interperated as me saying "Why'd you ban that person?". Well,that was not what I meant. I warned him in another thread that if he was going to keep up the way he was going, that he would end up canned. I was right.

I'll be going now.

Sam Wrote:

Gotruto Wrote:

Artie Wrote:do you not understand the stigma and malice that word has?

this is the same argument for 'white pride' or 'straight parades'. the majority is bitching, but the fact is they havent been oppressed and called inferior for all of their lives

Im sorry but i just dont see it.its not like current people actually have been oppressed, i just dont get how they feel, i dont get it at all, u cant geneticly transfer pain or anything...

woahhhhhhh

Quote:Your Existing Situation

Needs, and insists on having, a close and understanding relationship, or at least some method of satisfying a compulsion to feel identified.

Your Stress Sources

Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.

Your Restrained Characteristics

Exacting in his emotional demands and very particular in his choice of partner. The desire for emotional independence prevents any depth of involvement. The situation is preventing him from establishing himself, but he feels he must make the best of things as they are.

Your Desired Objective

Has exaggerated demands on life which are concealed behind specious rationalization and cautious behavior. Wishes to impress others with his achievements, but camouflages this desire and is inclined to be covert.

Your Actual Problem

The unsatisfied desire to be respected, to stand out from amongst his friends, is causing some anxiety. As a result, normal gregariousness is suppressed and he refuses to allow himself to become involved, or to participate with others in their ordinary activities

Takao Wrote:

AnnieDuck Wrote:

Takao Wrote:...

p. sure he meant STOP carp POSTING

I get it, you people don't really like me, to be expected, I'm an carp to deal with. What I didn't expect was to be snapped at for stating this thread became stale because of the rather serious tone it took. I guess that post could be interperated as me saying "Why'd you ban that person?". Well,that was not what I meant. I warned him in another thread that if he was going to keep up the way he was going, that he would end up canned. I was right.

I'll be going now.

SexyMichael Wrote:I can't believe you only gave him 3 days.

Ominous Wrote:This is what happens when I'm absent for like, seven hours.

Quote:Your Existing Situation
Working to improve her image in the eyes of others so as to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes.

Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads her to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Circumstances are such that she feels forced to compromise for the time being if she is to avoid being cut off from affection or from full participation.

Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction from sexual activity.

Your Desired Objective
Longs for tenderness and for a sensitivity of feeling into which she can blend. Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.

Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of her hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. She is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting her from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.