(Jul. 16, 2011  6:54 PM)th!nk Wrote: YOU ARE AN IDIOT.

Just ask her to it, say, you know how I mentioned the green lantern movie yesterday, did you want to go see it?

Or something better than that, I suck at asking people out

(Jul. 16, 2011  7:01 PM)th!nk Wrote: They will. Ask your dad though, they usually understand better

Ask them tonight, and ask her tomorrow. Nothing is better than doing it, even if she were to say no, believe me, it's an experience, and it gets easier each time. Seriously, MAN UP

(Jul. 16, 2011  8:35 PM)maroyasha Wrote: you're right th!nk. if she says no, deal with it and man up. even if you studder Sparta no big deal. lots of people do. (besides when i asked a girl out) don't mind what i wrote but what i'm saying is don't stress. think over what you want to say. if you do studder at least you had the courage to ask her out

(Jul. 17, 2011  12:51 AM)Megablader9 Wrote: Hah. Yeah it's kinda weird, but hey, who am I to complain? Besides, I'm kinda glad, I'm broke at the moment, considering I usually pay for my books for school, and we have a HUGE list for next year.

(Jul. 17, 2011  4:02 AM)Sparta Wrote: Good for you, mega.

Just asked, and she said yes! We're going to see transformers!

(Jul. 16, 2011  10:15 PM)Megablader9 Wrote: Success! I asked the girl from Anime Club out during the meeting at noon today, and she said yes! Gah, I'm still in total disbelief! I will now go try to find some decent clothing for next Saturday. (Is it normal for the girl to suggest places like the Harold Washington Library? It's a library, so I'm kinda wary. Though she did seem excited, so I'll just stop worrying about it before I screw up, as I inevitably tend to do.) Hah, that's why I didn't post from about 12 to, like, 2 p.m. My older brother doesn't necessarily like the girl, so he gave me this "You poor fool..." look, so I chewed him out later.

Exactly what Happened: I asked to talk to her, and began explaining that I liked someone from the Anime Club, noting that we had a lot in common, she was nice, and that I'd been talking to her for a long time. (Got this idea from Tony Dungy's book, and figured that I could do it better. Of course, I couldn't.) After about ten minutes, I finished talking. She thought for a while, and said "So...you like ____(Name excluded)?" I'm like: "Huh? Erm... No." She goes: "Ah, so it's ____(Name again excluded.)?" Me:"...I don't even talk to her often! Okay, maybe I wasn't very clear. I was describing YOU." *Awkward moment passes* I'm thinking: "Oh, damn. I'm gonna get rejected again." Then, oh geez, this is so cliche, she goes: "Well, I was wondering when you were gonna ask, you idiot!" I'm scratching my head, going "Is that a yes?" It was, and we had quite a bit of fun while we were at the library waiting for rides after the meeting. Geez, that seems like something out of a book, doesn't it? I'm trying to find out how it happened myself.

(Jul. 14, 2011  5:22 AM)Fury Wrote:

(Jul. 14, 2011  4:16 AM)Deikailo Wrote: I mean, I have taken girls out on dates before, but I can't remember a time where I was taken out.

u mean guys?

(Jul. 09, 2011  6:42 AM)Deikailo Wrote:

(Jul. 08, 2011  7:27 PM)NightWolf7919 Wrote: th!nk you cruel cruel man...I once liked a girl...and then I got over it cause she was a bi- well you get the point...

Bisexual? You can say that here. Even so, bisexuality is normally a phase at your age. They generally pick a gender by college.

My bisexual phase lasted like, 6 months. It was mostly because I thought homosexuality was an insult rather than an actual occurance. Sex ed REALLY needs to start covering that more because I already knew half of the stuff they covered, yet I was blown away when I first heard that people could actually be attracted to the same gender. Go figure.

(Jul. 08, 2011  7:31 PM)NightWolf7919 Wrote: the girl I once liked used my feelings to her advantage. she was sick, and I never talked to her again, even though now she pleads for my forgiveness. All of her friends have sort of ditched her now

I had a similiar situation, but it was on a larger scale. Some girls never change and if they do, it takes a few years. It's a good thing you recognized that she was taking advantage of you. Some people will just accept it.

(Jul. 18, 2011  1:58 PM)th!nk Wrote: Seriously dude, who cares about what people say. The best way is just to not give a carp about them

Aint even kidding bro, that's basically the way everyone dreams of it panning out, it's actually super-cool to hear it happen.

(Jul. 18, 2011  5:54 PM)Triple-X-Turbo Wrote: Really I have no girlfriend. You guys are very lucky, sharing stuff with each other, spending time at movie theaters together, a lot of gossip with each other etc. Those are really nice. Truly I would like to congratulate everyone here to carry on their dates.
Best of luck

(Jul. 20, 2011  6:38 PM)tanzam2 Wrote:

(Jul. 18, 2011  5:54 PM)Triple-X-Turbo Wrote: Really I have no girlfriend. You guys are very lucky, sharing stuff with each other, spending time at movie theaters together, a lot of gossip with each other etc. Those are really nice. Truly I would like to congratulate everyone here to carry on their dates.
Best of luck

most of the time people 14 and under are just doing it to do it

(Jul. 16, 2011  10:15 PM)Megablader9 Wrote: Success! I asked the girl from Anime Club out during the meeting at noon today, and she said yes! Gah, I'm still in total disbelief! I will now go try to find some decent clothing for next Saturday. (Is it normal for the girl to suggest places like the Harold Washington Library? It's a library, so I'm kinda wary. Though she did seem excited, so I'll just stop worrying about it before I screw up, as I inevitably tend to do.) Hah, that's why I didn't post from about 12 to, like, 2 p.m. My older brother doesn't necessarily like the girl, so he gave me this "You poor fool..." look, so I chewed him out later.

Exactly what Happened: I asked to talk to her, and began explaining that I liked someone from the Anime Club, noting that we had a lot in common, she was nice, and that I'd been talking to her for a long time. (Got this idea from Tony Dungy's book, and figured that I could do it better. Of course, I couldn't.) After about ten minutes, I finished talking. She thought for a while, and said "So...you like ____(Name excluded)?" I'm like: "Huh? Erm... No." She goes: "Ah, so it's ____(Name again excluded.)?" Me:"...I don't even talk to her often! Okay, maybe I wasn't very clear. I was describing YOU." *Awkward moment passes* I'm thinking: "Oh, damn. I'm gonna get rejected again." Then, oh geez, this is so cliche, she goes: "Well, I was wondering when you were gonna ask, you idiot!" I'm scratching my head, going "Is that a yes?" It was, and we had quite a bit of fun while we were at the library waiting for rides after the meeting. Geez, that seems like something out of a book, doesn't it? I'm trying to find out how it happened myself.

(Jul. 20, 2011  6:38 PM)tanzam2 Wrote:

(Jul. 18, 2011  5:54 PM)Triple-X-Turbo Wrote: Really I have no girlfriend. You guys are very lucky, sharing stuff with each other, spending time at movie theaters together, a lot of gossip with each other etc. Those are really nice. Truly I would like to congratulate everyone here to carry on their dates.
Best of luck

most of the time people 14 and under are just doing it to do it

i dont mean this how it may sound to some of you